Religon In a relationship.

[Sammich]

if u feel an ultimatum will come up..leave now before later, cuz its gona be hard to leave later. and believe me, whatever issues you have now, will be there later. so if you dont want religion and she wants you to have it...its gona cause friction, believe it.

[Bruce Leroy]

if u feel an ultimatum will come up..leave now before later, cuz its gona be hard to leave later. and believe me, whatever issues you have now, will be there later. so if you dont want religion and she wants you to have it...its gona cause friction, believe it.

Thats what i told her. She is either going to have to accept my views, or it is going to bother her 1000x worse down the road... And i'm not going to deal with that.

pick up scientology.

sike

[JennB]

if u feel an ultimatum will come up..leave now before later, cuz its gona be hard to leave later. and believe me, whatever issues you have now, will be there later. so if you dont want religion and she wants you to have it...its gona cause friction, believe it.

Agreed. From what you've said, it seems like she's already making a big issue of it and that issue is not likely to go away.

There are two types of religious people in this world... those who accept other people's belief's and those who don't. If they don't, it's not going to work out.

Of course the religion and lack of religion CAN coexist but both people have to be willing to let them coexist.

I also agreed an ultimatum is likely. I've seen it happen. I know a girl who met this guy online, they met in person and hit it off really well and dated for a while. Then he moved for her and one day she said "I just can't do it. I can't marry someone who isn't of the same religion as me". I think her family may have had some influence but religion is just such a huge part of her life. Her whole life revolves around it and she realized he we never be a part of so many things that meant so much to her. He was left high and dry... heartbroken. I agree in standing behind your principles, but I think she should have made that clear before he moved for her and they spent nearly two years together. All a waste now.

Be upfront, honest and open. Don't end up heartbroken one day because you thought things would change.

[Sammich]

Agreed. From what you've said, it seems like she's already making a big issue of it and that issue is not likely to go away.

There are two types of religious people in this world... those who accept other people's belief's and those who don't. If they don't, it's not going to work out.

Of course the religion and lack of religion CAN coexist but both people have to be willing to let them coexist.

I also agreed an ultimatum is likely. I've seen it happen. I know a girl who met this guy online, they met in person and hit it off really well and dated for a while. Then he moved for her and one day she said "I just can't do it. I can't marry someone who isn't of the same religion as me". I think her family may have had some influence but religion is just such a huge part of her life. Her whole life revolves around it and she realized he we never be a part of so many things that meant so much to her. He was left high and dry... heartbroken. I agree in standing behind your principles, but I think she should have made that clear before he moved for her and they spent nearly two years together. All a waste now.

Be upfront, honest and open. Don't end up heartbroken one day because you thought things would change.

reps for this cuz this applies to all things in a relationship..the person will not change unless..THEY want to