Your Girl's @ the Strip Club...Yes or No??

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Okay, since my other thread seemed to be heading in this direction... Let's talk about it.

Men, what is/are/was/or will be your opinion on your significant other going to the strip club?

I personally go only on special occasions or when my friends or I am feeling down. I only go to female clubs. I dont think I can handle foreign penis flinging everywhere... It's just not me. But according to what some said in my previous thread, girls at the strip club is calling for nothing but failed relationships. Is this true?

[DieselNuts]

I dont see a problem with it really, unless it becomes very frequent and I am not invited to come along. If its a girls night out or something, I dont see the harm in it.

[TicketRedBB6]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my

[Leisa]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

[TicketRedBB6]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

Lol. It's cool for couples to go together for a night out, party, whatever. But when people their by themselves and their partner is home, it eventually causes problems.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I dont see a problem with it really, unless it becomes very frequent and I am not invited to come along. If its a girls night out or something, I dont see the harm in it.

I dont see it as a problem either! I think that I am entitled to go out and enjoy my night and spend my money how I see fit. Some people just dont understand why I, a female, would go see other females. I get accused of being gay all the time, but seriously...The female body is beautiful! There is nothing in this world that compares to the beauty of it, and it isnt even the appearance of it... I appreciate it as a whole, the fact that a woman can provide life...Is amazing to me, so I guess forgive me for my admiration, but females are great!!!! And females with small waste and big butts are a weakness of mine...I will look, I will stare, and at the strip club it is justified!!!

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my

Okay, well I guess in my scenario... I am a single female that goes from time to time with my male friends. Sometimes I am with more females, sometimes I am the only one, but I am open about the things I do and how I spend my time so when I begin to date someone, I let them know from the beginning that I hang out with mostly guys and attend the strip club from time to time. I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

[TicketRedBB6]

Okay, well I guess in my scenario... I am a single female that goes from time to time with my male friends. Sometimes I am with more females, sometimes I am the only one, but I am open about the things I do and how I spend my time so when I begin to date someone, I let them know from the beginning that I hang out with mostly guys and attend the strip club from time to time. I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.

I understand that. I think its cool for people to go when they're single or with a large group of friends. And you atleast ask guys you like to go with you, its not your fault they dont wanna go. Though, I can't see why they wouldnt.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

I understand that. I think its cool for people to go when they're single or with a large group of friends. And you atleast ask guys you like to go with you, its not your fault they dont wanna go. Though, I can't see why they wouldnt.

I think some are afraid of how I will react in certain scenarios...

[TicketRedBB6]

I think some are afraid of how I will react in certain scenarios...

Ohhh that might be why, lol.

[Sammich]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

next time u post some obscene thoughts in a thread i will shoot ur pinky and thumbs off...u got me lol

me myself..i'm too jealous to let my wife go to a strip club...fluck the bs

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Ok, I understand that, but if let's say you were single and me and you began talking and I told you that I go to the strip club and you are more than welcome to come with me, hell we may even come home and have hot wild passionate sex after... Would you still consider it to be a bad thing, even though you are there?

[Sammich]

i duno...i think i'd have to be in that situation....like i said i'm jealous and depending on how i'm feeling towards u depends on how i'd react. right now...at this present thought...i dont think i would mind if i were with you. kinda like i dont even let teh wife go to concerts by herself...call me crazy, but its the same thing...so i think yea...if were just started talking...i dont think i'd mind

[SLOWLYbtngU]

i duno...i think i'd have to be in that situation....like i said i'm jealous and depending on how i'm feeling towards u depends on how i'd react. right now...at this present thought...i dont think i would mind if i were with you. kinda like i dont even let teh wife go to concerts by herself...call me crazy, but its the same thing...so i think yea...if were just started talking...i dont think i'd mind

Ok, so as long as your invited then that is ok?? I am just trying to get it right in my head.

I will not lie, I went once with a guy I liked and I was ready to rip the strippers head off becasue I felt like she was too efficient at her job, but then again, I only blamed myself b/c I was the one that was all for going. I composed myself but after that dance.... We left! I was not mad at him which is how he took it, I just felt the girl was disrespectful, b/c all the other strippers came around and spoke and joked with all of our party, but she solely focused on him...

[Sammich]

i'm only talking if we just started talking. but if we are bf/gf...fucc it...u aint going, point blank, cuz like u said..i'd rip the strippers head off. theres a lesbo that wants my wife right now and i'm ready to beat the brakes off that tramp cuz she's a habitual line stepper...this aint the first time she came at my wife.

[DieselNuts]

I invite them, but most either tell me that they do not like the strip club or they just have a problem with me attending, regardless of whether or not they go.

Honestly, I think you are dating the wrong guys...

[Sammich]

Honestly, I think you are dating the wrong guys...

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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to DieselNuts again.

[Tracy]

I go to the strip club all the time. Sometimes Dan comes, sometimes he doesn't (He doesn't like to go really...so his friends call me to go). I can frequently be seen making it rain at the Pink Pony. Our relationship is pretty secure, so we don't have any issues regarding it....unless I end up puking on the living room floor and Dan has to clean it up When he goes with his friends and I don't...he texts me the whole time. It's cute.

I have been to Swinging Richards once. It was interesting...yea that's a good word. Foreign (tee hee) flinging (you forgot BALD) penis is certainly a different experience. That being said, somehow I ended up in the VIP room with some strippers. One of them called me the next day while I was in bed with Dan. He thought it was funny. It was for a bachelorette party, so I haven't been back since. Not to mention most of the patrons were gay and they didn't appreciate a bunch of rowdy women at their super, secret, private joint.

[TicketRedBB6]

i'm only talking if we just started talking. but if we are bf/gf...fucc it...u aint going, point blank, cuz like u said..i'd rip the strippers head off. theres a lesbo that wants my wife right now and i'm ready to beat the brakes off that tramp cuz she's a habitual line stepper...this aint the first time she came at my wife.

Exactly how I feel, lol. +1 if I can

[Scrilla]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

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[Malice]

Okay, since my other thread seemed to be heading in this direction... Let's talk about it.

Men, what is/are/was/or will be your opinion on your significant other going to the strip club?

I personally go only on special occasions or when my friends or I am feeling down. I only go to female clubs. I dont think I can handle foreign penis flinging everywhere... It's just not me. But according to what some said in my previous thread, girls at the strip club is calling for nothing but failed relationships. Is this true?

depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.

[Sammich]

depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.

i demand u change that to "some men"

[Malice]

i demand u change that to "some men"

sorry guy, but when you really think about it. most and some used in a certain way could mean the same thing. yea, some men like it(most men like it, see what i mean?) but like i said, if you have issues that would make you feel less of a man by knowing that your girl is out getting lap dances from chicks, then you need to seek help asap. 1) its not healthy to have that attitude because it might cause a pointless and unnecessary arguement between you and your partner. and the one that all men should think about is 2) your relationship would be alot stronger and would have a better chance in making it on the long run. that is if you don't let small things like this get in your way. but not all men are created equal. :P

[BABY J]

I ALWAYS go to the strip club with my hubby... I prefer seeing women thatn I do men ( thats just gross)... If I wanted to see mens privates I would just have Brett dance for me..

QFT! ME TOO.

[imbosile]

I would definately not be okay with my girl goin to the strip club and she wouldn't be okay with me going. Unless you both go together or something, I don't think its a good idea. I'd get super mad the first time if it happened, then probably leave if there was a second time. That just my

Agree 100%.

[Sammich]

sorry guy, but when you really think about it. most and some used in a certain way could mean the same thing. yea, some men like it(most men like it, see what i mean?) but like i said, if you have issues that would make you feel less of a man by knowing that your girl is out getting lap dances from chicks, then you need to seek help asap. 1) its not healthy to have that attitude because it might cause a pointless and unnecessary arguement between you and your partner. and the one that all men should think about is 2) your relationship would be alot stronger and would have a better chance in making it on the long run. that is if you don't let small things like this get in your way. but not all men are created equal. :P

you make no sense. it was meant one man for one woman. so PERIOD...if another man/woman wana dance or tries to talk to my wife and i'm in her prescence (i say this because my wife comes homes with stories on the regular about lesbos and other dudes coming at her when i'm not with her) that person(male/female) will get a piece of my physical feelings PERIOD. trust is different then what this situation is. this is talking about going to a strip club...FUCC NO she aint going to no strip club and outa respect for my wife i'm not doing the same. thats how i am some will agree with their woman/wife/gf not going to the strip club and some/few will disagree with not going to the strip club outa respect for their significant other.

moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.

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[Malice]

you make no sense. it was meant one man for one woman. so PERIOD...if another man/woman wana dance or tries to talk to my wife and i'm in her prescence (i say this because my wife comes homes with stories on the regular about lesbos and other dudes coming at her when i'm not with her) that person(male/female) will get a piece of my physical feelings PERIOD. trust is different then what this situation is. this is talking about going to a strip club...FUCC NO she aint going to no strip club and outa respect for my wife i'm not doing the same. thats how i am some will agree with their woman/wife/gf not going to the strip club and some/few will disagree with not going to the strip club outa respect for their significant other

you're talking about my post not making sense, then you marinate this? this ridiculous excuse of combined letters to prove nothing except that you lack any confidence and would much rather have your wife tied down to a chair then to let her do anything entertaining. now, if she doens't like those kind of things, ok, if she does and you don't let her have fun, you and all the other uptight guys are the reason why females turn to lesbiens. stop wiping the drool out of your mouth and concentrate on the real topic, don't change it up to make all the guys out there sound like fresh virgins who are scared to let their girls experience alittle stripe club excitement.

moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.

yet again, another ingenious combination of words by none other than you! did you have to ask jeeves for help on this one? wow, of course your relationship will be stronger, living day in and day out doing the same old boring stuff will get you and your partner no where. think about this pbs, do you seriously think that by not trying new things that your relationship will remain as strong as the first time yall went out? let me answer that for you, of course not! how dull can you be, like seriously?

[BABY J]

I'll drop some science in a bit... for now I'm enjoying the show. LOL

[Frög]

i dont really see a problem with my significant other going to a female strip club..

[SLOWLYbtngU]

depending on what kind of relationship and how much trust you two have, there really shouldn't be any reason why i or any other men would get upset. if you have trust in your girlfriend that you can trust her enough to go anywhere and know she won't do anything that would cause your relationship to fail, whats wrong with going to a stripe club ya know? most men, including myself find that sweet as hell lol. but i guess it also has to do with the type of boyfriend you have, if he has low self esteem issues then he might look at it in a totally different point of view.

Well, I think that I was more wondering if a girl goes to the strip club, would you see it as a turn off or a warning sign to stay the hell away from her? I had one guy stop talking to me completely when he found out that I went to the strip club. It didnt matter who I went with or if he was invited, he just saw it as morally wrong, and I respected him for that, because seriously...I do not want to be with someone that doesnt support me at least 75% of the time in things that I decide to do... To each his own... It isnt like I live at the club... I go for fun. and that....

[Malice]

Well, I think that I was more wondering if a girl goes to the strip club, would you see it as a turn off or a warning sign to stay the hell away from her? I had one guy stop talking to me completely when he found out that I went to the strip club. It didnt matter who I went with or if he was invited, he just saw it as morally wrong, and I respected him for that, because seriously...I do not want to be with someone that doesnt support me at least 75% of the time in things that I decide to do... To each his own... It isnt like I live at the club... I go for fun. and that....

so answer your question, no. i personally wouldn't feel any differently, id feel the same if i saw a girl walking around at the mall or where ever, ya know. if a guy makes his own conclusion about a person just cause of that, they have alot of growing up to do. you havr to test out the car before buying it, and by test driving it i don't mean having sex, i mean getting to know it.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

moral of the story is...just cause you 'allow' your mate to go the strip club doesnt mean that your relationship will get stronger, thats horse sh*t.

I love you Bryan, I really do... But I DO NOT agree with your statement... It is a generalization based on your view point. Some people are perfectly fine with their significant other going to the strip club... Hell, it was Dirty Oct's fiance that wanted to take him to the strip club for his b-day... She makes it rain on the hoes as does he...They leave at the end of the night having had a great time! You cannot tell me that their relationship isn't secure... I mean sh*t I am a bridesmaid in their wedding next month. I am sorry but I think it depends on the man. The last guy I dated didn't like the strip club, but he never told me I couldn't go. Hell, I invited him even though I knew it wasn't his scene. He knew I wouldn't do anything stupid at the end of the night b/c he knew who I was going with and knew that they wouldn't let me make an ass outta myself...He thought/thinks I was/am gay... but that is besides the point...lol

[BABY J]

The kicker is all of you fags thinking it's all about YOU. LOL - kids I swear. "I don't mind if my lady goes to a female strip club..." OH YEAH??? PROBABLY b/c YOU like to go to them too (or WILL go, or HAVE gone to them). Double f*ckin standard. If it's okay for you to see tits and a$s, then it needs to be okay for HER to see c0ck'n balls. In fact... the next time "u an the boys" go see some a$s, then she should go out w/ her gfs to get c0ck rubbed on her lap and in her face for $20 as well.

Don't make dumba$s rules that only apply to YOU in the relationship... you're a hypocrite if you do. I wish I had more time I'd call a lotta people out in here... LOL. They want their women to be ready to accept something that they are not ready to accept themselves. /rant

More to come... gtg kids.

[Malice]

Don't make dumba$s rules that only apply to YOU in the relationship... you're a hypocrite if you do. I wish I had more time I'd call a lotta people out in here... LOL. They want their women to be ready to accept something that they are not ready to accept themselves. /rant

am i one of those people who you would like to "callout?" just curious... lol

[BABY J]

PS: Sorry Joss... PBS is right. Your relationship is in no way strengthened by enjoying a night at the strip club together. You have to ALREADY have that strength b4 u get there or it can/will send sh1t downhill in a hurry. If ur not ready for it, tread softly b/c that can be an interesting drive back home (or WALK back home... LOL). Octopus and his lady may very well have a secure relationship - that security ALLOWS them to go to strip club w/ no worries... but the club in NO WAY is responsible for the security they have.

Grrr... I got more... but I'm on a time crunch sweets.. toodle loo.

am i one of those people who you would like to "callout?" just curious... lol

If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard.

[SLOWLYbtngU]

so answer your question, no. i personally wouldn't feel any differently, id feel the same if i saw a girl walking around at the mall or where ever, ya know. if a guy makes his own conclusion about a person just cause of that, they have alot of growing up to do. you havr to test out the car before buying it, and by test driving it i don't mean having sex, i mean getting to know it.

Oh, I am totally with you. I only brought up this topic b/c it seemed like my other thread about me and my issues with letting a guy pay was turning into a girls-shouldnt-go-to-the-strip-club-if-they-want-to-be-taken-seriously thread.

I think that most of the guys that I date or have gone out with love that fact that I am secure enough with myself and my body to go into a place that has nothing but naked women flaunting their natural given beauty(well sometimes) and I dont give a damn. I may be a big girl...but f*ck I am cute and I dont mind putting myself in that situation..Like I said before, only once have I wanted to beat the living sh*t out of a stripper but I had to get over it, because she was doing her job.

[Scrilla]

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[SLOWLYbtngU]

PS: Sorry Joss... PBS is right. Your relationship is in no way strengthened by enjoying a night at the strip club together. You have to ALREADY have that strength b4 u get there or it can/will send sh1t downhill in a hurry. If ur not ready for it, tread softly b/c that can be an interesting drive back home (or WALK back home... LOL). Octopus and his lady may very well have a secure relationship - that security ALLOWS them to go to strip club w/ no worries... but the club in NO WAY is responsible for the security they have.

Grrr... I got more... but I'm on a time crunch sweets.. toodle loo.



If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard.

I never said that the going to the strip joint would make you stronger as a couple... I def think it will show how secure you are when you're there. My problem is I am not in a relationship and some blame it on many different reasons (as you saw in my other thread) but this is one also. I have many many more, but I am trying to figure out how much of my life I want to put out there. I have had stalker issues recently, and uhh yeah..

[Malice]

If the shoe fits wear it. If not, disregard.

good responce, because you would fail going up against me. and i just wanted to let you know. no hard feelings though, everyone has different point of views when it comes to not only this but but if the sky is blue or green. of course, im the person who knows the sky is blue, but you and all the others keep repeating, "no the sky is green."