Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
Not at all. I understand exactly what you are saying. I think that from a personal aspect I go in expecting every guy to f*ck up and when he does it is more of a "I knew it. Now do I want to stay and work it out??" You feel me? I dunno...Oh well this strayed a bit.
i feel u 100%...cuz thats how the wifey was..now she's to the aspect of where in an argument..she'll go to the far end to say 'shes done with it' so to speak and not wana talk about it.

truthfully..i think a bulk of our problems (not trying to throw it off on something else, mind you) come from her past and not wanting to REALLY let it go. it affects her alot, and sometimes its hard to deal with i admit, but her family, her moms at least is on to not let things go and to hold on to it. til this day the wifey is always wondering what people think, and quick to jump the gun...all stems from the abuse, i know