Quote Originally Posted by amberghini
I honestly don't know what to tell you.

My boyfriend pays for 95% of the stuff, because you don't make crap working where I do. But, I do pick up the bill every now and then, or offer to pay something, and he finds it a nice gesture.

I figured most guys would love it if they had a girl who could pay for sh*t. I love it that I have a boyfriend who is willing to buy me food whenever I "demand" it. So, I don't know why the opposite wouldn't work out.

I take that back. My ex-******* didn't pay for ****. I just recalled that out of some repressed memories. He made me pay for a good 85% of the stuff. That pissed me off. Not because he made me pay, but I felt he was leeching (sp?) off of me.

I guess my advice is to find a guy who will let you pay for stuff, or get the waiter to bring the bill while he's in the bathroom.
See that is the thing, the whole dating thing is new to me. I was always in a relationship and never had to worry about anything. We were always 50/50 or every once and a while we would pay for each other..but once again, never an issue.

Well when that ended, I felt like I depended on him waaaay too much and told myself that I would never put that much dependence on anybody Iwas dating or seeing.

I went through my "hoe phase" where all I did was have sex and that is it, no emotional attachments were needed or wanted. In fact they were kinda annoying when they happened. That got old. I started dating seriously trying to find someone compatible to me and I have yet to find it. The reason seems to come up being the same all the time... Either I am too proud or they feel like they have nothing to offer...