Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
It's cool, I mean hell, I have told you about some of the guys that I have dated...

So lemme get this right, you think that if I were to find that right MAN, then my independence wouldn't come into play? I would just somehow balance out and quit thinking about it? I mean I think you may be right.

God, my life sounds like Sex in the City...


At 1st.. when you 1st start dating a guy.. forget about your independence.... let the dude do the work.
Now, if the relationship works out and you guys become BF and GF then yes.. at the point the new BF will know you are really independent once he gets to know you better and it will/could be great.... when is time to move out.. both of you guys can buy stuff togther..go on trips together etc.. at the point it could actually be a real cool relationship...
But that doesnt garantee happiness.. just make things a little easier....