whipped or not whipped?

[Leisa]

A lot of people don't get that. They want to act like "Me, Tarzan...you, Jane..." all the time and then wonder why they are perpetually single or paired up with a Harlet.

Listen, everyone that knows me KNOWS that I'm definetly a really firm believer in men are men and women are women. Not a metrosexual hair on my body, but that doesn't mean that you have to be a caveman and drag your woman by her hair back in the cave all the time. There will be instances from time to time where you have to have your pants in the right place and put your foot down like a man, no doubt. But far too often, especially when we're younger, men think that this testosterone display has to be done every day when in reality far too often we're just playing for the cameras.

When you get older and settle down with someone, you realize that not everything is WWIII and therefore doesn't require you to fire off your nuclear tantrums. This realization goes a long way in avoiding those stupid fights that start from something simple and then morphs into WWIII. Trust me, there are only a handful of situations where true WWIII tactics need to be put in place. What happens is that most of us get worked up and blow that preverbial mountain out of a mole hill and spin a regular disagreement into a break-up only to protect our pride or for the simple and idiotic satisfaction of being "right".

My grandpa once told me, "Never ask a man without a pole nor bait about fishing." So look at folks that have successful long term relationships, be it with significant other and/or friends, as beacons to learn from. Hollywood and wannabes are not the best teachers.

Jaime you are so smart;... you are my hero

[Master Shake]

i refused to be whipped before i got married, and i'm not whipped after being married. Whipped is a fact, not an immature folklore. We don't keep each other from doing anything extracurricular and i don't have to worry about her cheating on me. We are both whipped into each others ways. Thank You. I don't understand these marriages that my friends have where they are constantly for real bickering and ****.

exactly.
i do what i want to, but i take her feelings on things and what she would think into consideration before i go off and do something. in the same sense, she does the same for me. i care about my girlfriend, and i know she cares about me. i'll let her do what she wants and she lets me do what i want.
whipped is a stupid term. i think i quit saying when i got in high school.

[sleeperteg]

I see its tough be a man these days ?

[Ronsam2006]

This thread makes me laugh...

This thread makes me yawn...

[chinitoxamor]

im not whip, im the type of guy who pretends to be mad at my girlfriend, play slap her, walk away and let her come back to me. lol

[imbosile]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

Exactly.

[chinitoxamor]

It should be more like Maturity or Immaturity? When you grow up you realize as long as there is mutual respect that the term "whipped" is a high school term, nobody really cares or has time to worry about that kind of stuff.

so does this mean autumnk5 is still in high school?


anyways mutual respect does it all, kinda like me saying i have my foot so far up her ass that i dont give a damn if she thinks im whip when im the one who pays the bill and she does all the moaning. anyways thank you and goodbye

[imbosile]

Sorry that not everyone is as enlightened as you are.

I guess families were doing it all wrong during the time in society where:
1. The man was the head of the household 2.The female counterpart stayed home and raised the offspring 3. Said offspring was accounted for at all times and weren't off killing or car jacking or robbing anyone. 4. Divorces weren't a common thing. People had morals and values.

Seriously, wtf were they thinking?

You my friend are a dumbass. I think what has happened is that women are actually sort of standing up for themselves now and realize they deserve to do whatever they want to with their life. Not how you are describing, where women are expected to stay at home, raise the kids, and not have a career.

I'd much rather have things the way they are today.