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    Cool Guys, how do you approach a girl?

    I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Some girls like this others don't. I wish I knew what all girls look for but it's like me trying to read in spanish, hopeless.

    So how do some of you approach females?

    And this isn't a bash girls for being dumb thread. Some are but alot aren't. I have two sisters so I know that for a fact, also I kinda know what some like and don't. I know about periods and know how to make them feel better while on it. Thats why alot of girls liked me back in middle/high school. Lets get started!


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    isn't this cute????

    tip for guys:

    overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
    too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

    try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

    haha... i'm not even a guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by autumnk5
    isn't this cute????

    tip for guys:

    overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
    too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

    try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

    haha... i'm not even a guy.
    Did you see "girls are more than welcome to post" anywhere in my post? Lol no, so beat it girl... but seriously I already know about the middle trick, and that good guys finish last. Over the years I have noticed that the majority of the girls go for the assholes because we keep yall entertained and angry at the same time.


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    I tell them I have a rather large walk-in closet. You know it's worked for me before, Alex.
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    lol okay so your butt hurt no lmao that great i wasn't bashing you lol what a dumbass.

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    slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
    *leaves


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    Quote Originally Posted by hydroshutter
    I tell them I have a rather large walk-in closet. You know it's worked for me before, Alex.
    LOL! Best approach ever!


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    Quote Originally Posted by khan351
    slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
    *leaves
    Lolol. That'll work on some occasions?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac©
    Lolol. That'll work on some occasions?
    haha jk bro...


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    :cough: Anyone else?


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    Quote Originally Posted by khan351
    slip em the date rape dr.... wait, nevermind...
    *leaves
    damn roffie...

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    Act shy, but funny. Be yourself and stay HONEST.


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    honesty is best, that way you wont have to remember what you said


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    Just talk to them, dont act to interested. Depends what age they are too.

    Older women dont want to bull****, so they dont want to play games.

    Young girls, most of them are just out to get laid, they arent looking for a relationship.

    My current GF is 21 and im 26 (almost 27). I basically just started talking to her (met her through an old friend) , asked her what she does, what shes studying in school, what she wants to be, etc. Ask about family, ambitions, etc. She ended up being REALLY mature so i gpt lucky.

    Basically you want to keep them talking about THEMSELVES, not about you. Act interested but not too much, and if they like you, its easy.

    If they arent in to you, move on to the next one.

    Ive had 20+ GFs so ive learned alot. Ive crashed and burned a few times, but its life. ive had 5 SERIOUS relationships. I get bored too easy though, after 6 months, i start being selfish and dont give a shi.t about the other person LOL. ive been better about it lately.

    main thing i learned is make myself happy, cause at the end of the day if you arent happy with YOU , theres no way a relationship or dating life is going to work. That may sound selfish, but its true, same goes for the other person, they have to be happy with themselves too.

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    Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
    Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
    Considering all your condescending and chauvinistic posts about ladies in general..... I thought you knew everything about everything, including and especially "women". Why would you need to ask anything? Need tips? Loosing your magic touch?
    I never said I knew everything about them. I do on the other hand know the diffrence between an ugly and cute looking girl. And I posted the way I approached them, I was asking others how they did it. Trust me I need no help.


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    if you're in it for sex. be a ****. young bitches love that **** son!

    if you wanna get serious though, just be yourself. not too open not too shy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac©
    I never said I knew everything about them. I do on the other hand know the diffrence between an ugly and cute looking girl. And I posted the way I approached them, I was asking others how they did it. Trust me I need no help.
    Doesn't sound like it by this thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
    Doesn't sound like it by this thread.
    We both have different ways of looking at things... Why are you acting like it's a suprise?


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    I enjoy a guy who's creative and up for the challenge. I'm not easily impressed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by osiriskidd
    if you're in it for sex. be a ****. young bitches love that **** son!

    if you wanna get serious though, just be yourself. not too open not too shy.

    well put my friend!


    I just approach a girl as if im trying to be her friend, gotta make sure she aint crazy first! then I go from there.

    just gotta be yourself man, thats the key.
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    FYI: Im not asking for advice LOL so people could stop posting like I am.


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    I just tell them that they are many years from now (if the kids don't do it or the loads of ice cream and twinkie do) that they are just gonna be some lard infested fat couch potato so they might as well take my number while they look good enough to do so and I'm giving them the opportunity to. That gets me quite a few numbers

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    i always wanted to make a thread like this
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac©
    FYI: Im not asking for advice LOL so people could stop posting like I am.
    Wow, seems like more people think like ME than they do YOU......hmmmmmm???? Eat crow much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
    Wow, seems like more people think like ME than they do YOU......hmmmmmm???? Eat crow much?
    Blah blah I was just putting it out there...


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    You could do it the Middle Eastern way. Just go to her father's house and pay him $2000 so you can marry his daughter.

    Better yet, swap her for 15 gallons of insecticide.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PsychoSquirl
    You could do it the Middle Eastern way. Just go to her father's house and pay him $2000 so you can marry his daughter.

    Better yet, swap her for 15 gallons of insecticide.


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    "ever seen the back seat of a subaru before??" ... "want to?"
    hmmmm


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    Quote Originally Posted by khan351
    "ever seen the back seat of a subaru before??" ... "want to?"
    hmmmm
    LOL I have used that one before and it worked! The slut just one day vanished!! But I can put money that she still wants to see it!


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    You look nice with that red dress......."singing" LADY IN REDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberghini
    I enjoy a guy who's creative and up for the challenge. I'm not easily impressed.
    How did I miss this post? Lolol. So creative huh, interesting... I too like girls who aren't easy to get, it makes it less interesting and boring once you reach the goal.


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    Quote Originally Posted by autumnk5
    isn't this cute????

    tip for guys:

    overly sweet----- FAKER! he just wants to get in your pants.
    too much of an ass---- B . itch! why are you talking to me?

    try go for a middle ground. i like mine a bit more of an *******.

    haha... i'm not even a guy.

    i dont know about you.. im sweet but it aint like im tryna get into a girl's pants.. i got my values where i want to take a relationship slow because rushing into one might ruin alot of things.. plus if im being overly sweet it means i want her attention too.. you cant just look at one point of view.. but look at both sides.. not all guys are assholes.. or guys who try to get in your pants.. honestly u gotta get to know the partner before jumpin into a relationship.. love has to be built.. not found outta nowhere.. well thats enough talk for me im pretty happy being single.. even thou there someone there


    yeahhhhhh you likeeeee when she does thattttttt

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac©
    I'll go first... When it comes to trying to get a number or whatever. I usually act some what nice at first then start acting like an asshole but in a funny but not so nice way. Some girls like this others don't. I wish I knew what all girls look for but it's like me trying to read in spanish, hopeless.

    So how do some of you approach females?

    And this isn't a bash girls for being dumb thread. Some are but alot aren't. I have two sisters so I know that for a fact, also I kinda know what some like and don't. I know about periods and know how to make them feel better while on it. Thats why alot of girls liked me back in middle/high school. Lets get started!

    conversate.. be a gentleman.. ask her what her interests are.. and what numbers to dial lol



    sounds like BIGGIEEEEEE


    yeahhhhhh you likeeeee when she does thattttttt

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    Quote Originally Posted by chinitoxamor
    conversate.. be a gentleman.. ask her what her interests are.. and what numbers to dial lol



    sounds like BIGGIEEEEEE
    Dude, did you read post #22? Lol


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    exactly how you do it maniac. Be nice and **** and what not but then be a **** in the midst of it. hahah works sometimes but the younger once Ive noticed they just want to use you. I hate dealing with 18-19 year olds. Im done with that ****.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crazy Asian
    exactly how you do it maniac. Be nice and **** and what not but then be a **** in the midst of it. hahah works sometimes but the younger once Ive noticed they just want to use you. I hate dealing with 18-19 year olds. Im done with that ****.
    What I've noticed is that the majority of the younger ones just want to have a good time. Not necessarily use you. Well, im not sure about you. But I have never been used lol. Plus, now a days these little girls just want to fuck and go shopping. Which is fine for anyone in my age range. :p


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    Ugh Cali girls. Date those girls. There the worst. Youll see. I havent dated any 18-19 year olds here but dude the girls over there are horrendous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crazy Asian
    Ugh Cali girls. Date those girls. There the worst. Youll see. I havent dated any 18-19 year olds here but dude the girls over there are horrendous.
    Hahahahah dude I believe you! Tricks with attitudes that not are only hardcore(compare to girls here) but smart when it comes to getting what they want.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniac©
    Dude, did you read post #22? Lol

    not really bro lol.. i just figure i should speak..


    anyways.. just be you man


    yeahhhhhh you likeeeee when she does thattttttt

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