guys...

[TicketRedBB6]

^^^Troof.


Seriously, don't blame men everywhere because you don't have your sh!t together. I would've played your ass too

[SLOWLYbtngU]

^^^Troof.


Seriously, don't blame men everywhere because you don't have your sh!t together. I would've played your ass too

The thing is for some women, there is a fear of accountability for ones actions. Like she said, to an extent we are not stupid and we can sometimes sense when someone is being unfaithful, but it is up to us to make a decision when it comes to what we are going to do with that information. There is the childish thing which is to try to retaliate (waste of time), there is the grown up thing (walk away with your heead up high), and then there is love (this sh*t sucks ass.)

Retaliation- It feels good for a bit, then you realize that all the time you put into pissing someone off was a waste, bc you could have been making an effort to be with someone that WANTS you and no one else. I used to do this all the time! I thought hat that I was teaching them a lesson but all I was doing was making life difficult for the next girl that probably has no bad intentions ad will have to deal with a guy that was hurt and isnt sure how to let someone in.

Walking Away- This one sucks bc you cant help but to wonder "what if I would have stayed." Let me make it easy for you... History repeats itself and if you are just dating...You get over it, you really do.

Love- Now this one is a b*tch bc I truly believe that once you accept within yourself that you are in love....You will put up with hell and high water no matter what is thrown at you...you will stay by their side. I am not saying that you should stay if things get abusive or if he doesnt even sleep with you anymore, but honestly when it comes to love I think everyone has their limits and boundaries and they are different for everyone. I avoid giving advice when I reaize people are in love bc love can fix some of the most f*cked relationships.

But seriously, the choice to be anywhere with anyone is our own, and yet so may women (myself included) are so quick to point fingers when he cheats or whatnot but we refuse to self evaluate and see what pushed him away or to look at what he went for and learn what lured him away. I dunno. I hate relationships.