try to get a ROTC scholorship, that will help pay for just about all of it.
go to afrotc.com and click on the scholorship tab.

but beware, one of my friends whos doing Army ROTC (to fly helicopters) got a scholorship and instead of sending him to Daytona Beach, they sent him to Prescott, Arizona... even though hes 100x closer in distance to Daytona Beach.



also, the military is in a pilot overage now, too many pilots. The AF only graduates less than 1500 a year from UPT (undergraduate pilot training)... so they are cutting down on how many pilots they train. but good luck!