I feel like a horrible person.

[Jecht]

Well she told me she didn't believe in love, and I that just killed me. I had to tell her I couldn't be with her because I didn't want it to be one sided and I'm not sure if I had stayed that she would ever feel that way.

I'm getting over it, but it still hurts. I'm going to shut up now before I become the next person to be laughed on IA (again).

[Smittie61984]

Well she told me she didn't believe in love,.

I believe the same thing. I think people get together on circumstances. Wether it be common interests, personality, money, penis size, whatever. But Love in the Poetic sense I don't believe in. For example it doesn't matter if some guy living in a trailer is perfect for a girl who looks like Carmen Electra. They are just not going to get together. If true love exhisted maybe so. But Love doesn't exist. All Love consists of is "Lust, Happiness, and Fear". Which is Lust(Desire to have sex with someone), Happiness(Cool Chemicals released in your brian making you feel good when you see their facial features) and finally Fear(Being in long term commitments such as marriage and afriad to break out on your own again from fear of either being alone or suffering financial penalties through a divorce. Or commitment to children that you and your other have had)

The real question should be other than her saying "I don't believe in Love" do you guys click together? Do you enjoy your relationship? Is she always happy to see you and are you always happy to see her?

If so then I see no reason to break up with her. Despite her believing that Love doesn't exist.

But for me if a girl breaks up with me I don't care why. As far as I'm concerned it's non of my business. It's theirs. I don't need an explanation. I'm sure they have their reasons and nothing they can tell me is going to make me feel better or worse or cause me to change. So why deal with it.

But then again I'm an emotionally closed off curmudgeon narcissist who is extremeley damage beyound repair and whenever I look at people(wether male or female) I see nothing but Evil in them.

[hondachik]

I believe the same thing. I think people get together on circumstances. Whether it be common interests, personality, money, penis size, whatever. But Love in the Poetic sense I don't believe in. For example it doesn't matter if some guy living in a trailor is perfect for a girl who looks like Carmen Elektra. They are just not going to get together. If true love existed, maybe so. But Love doesn't exist. All Love consists of is "Lust, Happiness, and Fear". Which is Lust(Desire to have sex with someone), Happiness(Cool Chemicals released in your brain making you feel good when you see their facial features) and finally Fear(Being in long term commitments such as marriage and afraid to break out on your own again from fear of either being alone or suffering financial penalties through a divorce. Or commitment to children that you and your other have had)

now it all makes sense

[Glides]

But then again I'm an emotionally closed off curmudgeon narcissist who is extremeley damage beyound repair and whenever I look at people(wether male or female) I see nothing but Evil in them.

Man up.

[Smittie61984]

Man up.

I thought you had to be cool to be emo or whatever it's called.

[Elbow]

I believe the same thing. I think people get together on circumstances. Wether it be common interests, personality, money, penis size, whatever. But Love in the Poetic sense I don't believe in. For example it doesn't matter if some guy living in a trailer is perfect for a girl who looks like Carmen Electra. They are just not going to get together. If true love exhisted maybe so. But Love doesn't exist. All Love consists of is "Lust, Happiness, and Fear". Which is Lust(Desire to have sex with someone), Happiness(Cool Chemicals released in your brian making you feel good when you see their facial features) and finally Fear(Being in long term commitments such as marriage and afriad to break out on your own again from fear of either being alone or suffering financial penalties through a divorce. Or commitment to children that you and your other have had)

The real question should be other than her saying "I don't believe in Love" do you guys click together? Do you enjoy your relationship? Is she always happy to see you and are you always happy to see her?

If so then I see no reason to break up with her. Despite her believing that Love doesn't exist.

But for me if a girl breaks up with me I don't care why. As far as I'm concerned it's non of my business. It's theirs. I don't need an explanation. I'm sure they have their reasons and nothing they can tell me is going to make me feel better or worse or cause me to change. So why deal with it.

But then again I'm an emotionally closed off curmudgeon narcissist who is extremeley damage beyound repair and whenever I look at people(wether male or female) I see nothing but Evil in them.

[Jecht]

I lol'd at that too. I'm over all of this already.


Simontibbett, I'm may be getting a Miata. What kind of suspension setup are you using? I'm interested in Flyin Miata's suspension package that has KYB AGX shocks and their springs, but I want opinions before I become set on getting that setup.