and I understand where you are coming from I really do but me personally I have been taught to stay out of it and that's me. You need to whatever you feel that you need to and dont let anyone stop you. I think it is pointless to put this on ia b/c what we think doesnt matter in the long run.
Trust me I know kids come before anything and obviously this mom sees differently but so do a lot of parents and their kids have turned out fine. Im not saying that dfacs doesnt need to be called I am just saying it doesnt need to come from you. there are too many people in this world that like to play GOD and its unforntunate (not saying you). I think people can sometimes get way too involved in things and they shouldnt but once again that is just me.
