In this situation. I would be thinking **** the babysitter. To me, the welfare of children far outweighs that babysitter and her income. Later, QD.Originally Posted by Killer
I agree. I love kids, and honestly I would do whatever I could to help those kids have a better life. If it requires taking them away from their possibly alcoholic abusive mother, than so be it. If its as bad as you say it is, then DFACS (sp?) is the way to go. Its 2007, no one should be living like that when they dont need to be.Originally Posted by quickdodge®
yeah becuase someone's pay check is alwyas more important than children in a dangerous environmentOriginally Posted by Killer
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my wife was a nanny, the babysitter can lose all the kids she is keeping that week and 50 more will be ready to be babysat. my wife was never out of work when it came to babysitting. tell the sitter to get her ass on craigslist like everyone else
well, of course the children are more important.... BUT tiffany has to watch out for her child as well.. piss the babysitter off and you no longer have a babysitter...Originally Posted by PSINXS
all i'm saying is she needs to talk to the sitter about it so the sitter can be prepared... and can make whatever arrangements she needs to.. considering the babysitter is getting paid to TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN shouldn't the babysitter be the one who is more concerned and does what needs to be done...
why are me and QD the only mother****ers that have been posting in this thread with some damn sense!!!!(no offense to others) This could have been over 20 mins ago if she read and listen to either of our posts.Originally Posted by quickdodge®
true, but she may be thinking about the money shes making which sounds bad, but alot of people are like that. sometimes i think i should just worry about my son and my family, and GOD will do whats right, but i think im going to talk to the babysitter and then call dfacs..Originally Posted by Killer
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i dont think it s God's will these children are in a bad way. Its the mothers fault, quit beating around the bush and call DFACS before something serious happens to these children. and then you will look dumb for not doing something sooner.Originally Posted by <34Integras
DFACS... i mean no child should go with out.. but in situations like this the mother needs help.. maybe she should try welfare
read my last posts on page 2. this **** shouldnt even be discussed. anyone iwth half of brain knows how to handle this.
I don't have a child but I do have one on the way and I couldn't imagine EVER putting my needs before my child's. I would call DFACS in a heartbeat and wouldn't give a flying f*ck what the mom has to say. If your speculations are right, she will probably be in jail and lose custody of her children.
QFT. the wife knows. and like I said, all Tiffany has to do is mention craigslist if these kids are going to be taken. There are a ton of ppl that need sitters on craigslist. The babysitter will not hurt for anything.Originally Posted by PRiMAdonna
why is this thread going in ****in circles!
i know, but i didnt know if i should get involved because they arent my kids, but i think i will call. i dont want anything to happen to them. what i really dont understand is she works as a waitress, shes done it for a long time so she knows how to do the job well, she brags to the babysitter she can make the money for rent in one weekend, but how come she cant buy her kids what they need.
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i know what your all saying, its just that there are sooo many things to think about in this situation, i know the kids come first so like i said im going to talk to the baby sitter then do what i gotta do.
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Thank you Tiff! Now go help some kids!
yeah when i get off work today i will look into it more. i wish i could just take them home with me and help them myself.
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did you ask what you should say when you call DFACS????? /thread
First of all I cant beleive that the time it took you to type your post that you didnt realize what you should have already done. Call dfacs.... asap
Originally Posted by Leisa
look to whom your referring to...
not in away that i dont know to say or ask, in the sense that should i tell them EVERYTHING I KNOW..
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im at work, so i cant call now. so i decided to get some second opinions even though i knew in my mind dfacs would be the best thing just wanted to hear what others had to say.
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i've never really known you. or had any beef with you. but goddamn you're one stupid *****.
call ****ing DFACS and get it over with and stop being a dumb ****. you say you don't want the kids to be in such a bad position but then you turn around and think about the babysitter and how the mom would react.
i rarely flame or call anyone out on ****, but goddamn this was probably the most retarded ****ing thing i've read all day.
you even asked what you should say? /thread
better yet
/life.
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unfortanetly, i cant work magic so i cant call right this minute. im at work making a living for my son and family. i have to wait until lunch time to do it. thats why i posted this to see what other had to say, even though i knew the best thing to do. i didnt mean what should i say, like ive said i didnt know if i should tell them all i know or just that i believe they need to look into a case because i think kids were being mistreated.
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Originally Posted by <34Integras
while your out to luch... do us all a favor.. make the fone call
then go kill yo self
no can do, i have a son that i love and need to take care of and enjoy taking care of.Originally Posted by Dracc
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Originally Posted by <34Integras
well teach him nothing from your prior experience because none of which worked for you
VUONG... speak up.. enlighten us with your wise sayings lol
dracc your the one talking about you want to up and leave everything behind, not even metioning your daughter? you were still living at home, dont know if you still are or not, but im doing what i gotta do to take care of my household and family. that includes living on my own with no help from family.
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Originally Posted by <34Integras
cause i'm going to the military? thats to better myself and give my daughter something.. dont put my business out becaue your a dumbass
this was way before you talked about the military.
you said you were on a friends bike, and you wanted to get on the highway and never come back.
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Originally Posted by <34Integras
bitch... get off my Dick.. i said that cause i was pissed but didnt do it.. you asked about calling DFACS for a childs welfare.. but have yet to do so.. how dumb was that... if a kid is clearly not getting what they deserve in life its your job.. duty to make it aware... but yo dumbass has to ask somebody on a public internet forum on what you should do.... I should call DFACS on yo ass for be an Incompetent mother..
yes please, lets play on the interwebs which you shouldn't be doing at work because its non productive and serves no purpose but to up your post count, but lets not call DFACS and maybe save the lives of some kids.
Originally Posted by osiriskidd
she has yet to do so.. but talks about helping the child..![]()
i havent slept all night... just got done with my last exam.. im going to eat, beat, and pass out!!
thats all.. just thought id share..
wow call dfacs i dont give 2 shyts, they have no reason to take my son sweetie, he is well taken care of and has what he needs. i havent called yet because im always working.
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Originally Posted by <34Integras
how dumb are you... if your working why are you always on IA
Originally Posted by <34Integras
fixed