yes, a relationship question.. but not like all the others, its no longer a relationship.. save the sarcastic comments, i just want to know what you guys would do.. dont give me that emo BS either because its not how it is..

ok, so my ex and i broke up 6 months ago, it was a really ugly breakup.. i mean it was bad.. we never really saw each other or talked at all after that.. right before the end of summer, she tries to have coffee w/ me to "talk", about what, I dont know and i didn't care.. I refused the invite and continued my way.. I dated her girl for almost 2 years, and during that time, I really thought she was the one, and loved her (yes, more than anything).. Fights became more frequent and the long distance (3+hours) didint help.. sh!t hit the fan, I wanted a break, and we never got back together and she went w/ another dude.. she was a total b!tch and fu.cked me harder than i ever thought possible and i will never forgive her for that..

I would be lying if i said i didnt still care for her.. i avoid everything about her and usually, its just easier for me.. but i am now over her, she crosses my mind all the time, but i dont feel that pit in my stomach or sadness when i think of her.. I am hooking up with other girls, and really getting my life together well.. ive never gotten such good grades in my college life, and the main reason for that is i am single.. I have mixed feelings about this breakup, but mostly i am happy to be SINGLE! but i feel like we could of really had something going for us, but we just both fu.cked up.. and yes it pisses me off if i see her with another guy!

I avoided having coffee with her before because i was still hurt, and didn't know how i would react when i saw her, and i thought after what she did to me, she didn't deserve anything, not even my time.. i am now over the anger part, and i come to realize that, though it was mostly her fault, it was also partly mine (like 90% her 10% me )

blah blah blah.. yesterday i get a message on facebook from her:

so this weekend i am coming back to atlanta, i havent seen you in a while and i thought that it would be nice to catch up on things. I hope that everything is going well for you right now. If you dont want to meet up then let me know, because in that case i will not waste my time. But anyway, hope that you are having a great time.


I am torn between two options: Coffee/no coffee..
A. No coffee- ignore her, be a complete d!ck..
shows I dont give a s!it (which is kind off what I want, not the "no coffee" part, the "i dont give a sh!t part")
B. No coffee- tell her I don't think its a good idea..
shows im still holding a grudge, weak, still hurt, and maybe shows immaturity..
C. Coffee- how do i answer her message? what do i do?
I want to go there and show her as she knows, that everything is good now, but i really dont know how im going to react.. honestly, i kind of want to have coffee w/ her. but im worried that i will snap if she says something wrong, or say the wrong things.. i want to act normal, but i am afraid i will either exaggerate and act all happy and fake, or just fu.ck up..


what should i do?