Quote Originally Posted by ahabion
We got married for 3 reasons:

1. She makes more money than me.

2. She needs my U.S. Legal status otherwise her ass is deported. (not a bad idea sometimes)

3. cuz i like her... a lot.

Tho..... I've ask men all over a similar question... Other than you're in love or she has/had your baby, why is your girl with you?? (or for the married ones, why did your wife marry you?) --i was asked that question, and all i did was scratch my head and my ass and say... i dunno..
That is exactly what I want to know. I want you guys to actually think about the question rather than think of something quick to say " because i love him/her"

What is the real reason? Some people make marriage like it is the death of them. If it is...why are you still with someone that does'nt satisfy you...you just like them because you have history?

If it is fine and dandy.....I can understand that. But there is reason behind why you commit to someone or someone commits to you on that level besides INLOVE.

If this is too deep for some of you IA people i apologize. I just want to get into some of you guys head to see what you think and what you see.