Quote Originally Posted by Julio
Really easy... But.. you are the only one who can change that.. No one can train you or nothing.. read books and shit like that... ..

I can switch mood whenever I feel like it.. I can be quite and careless about the people around me... or I can be really friendly, outgoing and all that jazz.

Of course my Job has helped me alot improve that... I mean, I have to, I operate a Million dollar establishment with 20 employees who I have to help develope, and corporate heads calling, visiting all the time, 1000's of customers a day, dealing with vendors and other issues..I cannot be shy.
And as crazy as it sounds... When I used to do car shows that helped also.. interacting with all types of people from all walks of life and owning IA has also helped.. meeting with "Big" heads of whatever company we are dealing with at whatever time....

But bottom line is, only you can change that... is not that easy..... Some people do it in all different ways.. you have the people who are outgoing through cracking jokes, making a group of people laugh at all times.. and then you got those who people really are serious when they step in a group..

Is like a family reunion.. most people, ( I know I do ) like sitting down and listening to there grandparents and all the stuff they have seen in life .. they just come in, start talking and everyone listens...


I hate to say it.. you are not alone bro... With the internet and shit like that is not the same...

I mean, Before the internet was big, I used to go to the mall, movies, games , park,club whatever and meet people... meet girls.. Now, the internet had made alot of people lazy as fuck, for the most part.

If you take the tools the internet has and combined them with other stuff around in the "real" world.. it will be great.. But for the most part it has made people lazy.

I mean, look at myspace.. Thats like almost an escort service.. It was created for people to interact.. but for the most part is used for the wrong reasons... and it works.. hahah i just dont get it.


Just be smart about things... make smart decisions and you will be ok...

Being shy is all in your head..

Copy, paste, save. very well stated.