Baby?? No daddy...

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first off this has nothing to do with my religion, and has everything to do with how my mother tried to keep my sister and i from our father... and even used us to hurt our father. had him arrested for showing up to pick us up on the weekends (as he was supposed to be doing... she would call him and say "come get the kids, they're ready" and then tell the police a different story and have them waiting on him. my parents have been divorced longer than i can remember... (i was a baby.. not sure my age.. like no more than a year) and i know first hand what it's like to have to go without seeing my father... and missing that male role model for quite some time as a child.

You break my GODdamn heart. You thought you had it bad, huh? I wonder what it'd be like if my Father left my Mom, sister and I and got married to another woman. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father had two more children with that lady not a year later. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father then came back and got a divorce from my Mom. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father then went to court and willingly disowned my sister and I so that he wouldn't have to have anything to do with us. I wonder what it'd be like if after we moved on(here to GA-2100 miles) if my Father and his new family moved across country and ended up living 15 minutes from us until the day he died without never hearing a word since I was 1 year old. I wonder how that woul........oooops, my bad. I know exactly how that feels. So save your sob stories for someone who hasn't had it worse. Later, QD.

[Killer]

You break my GODdamn heart. You thought you had it bad, huh? I wonder what it'd be like if my Father left my Mom, sister and I and got married to another woman. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father had two more children with that lady not a year later. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father then came back and got a divorce from my Mom. I wonder what it'd be like if my Father then went to court and willingly disowned my sister and I so that he wouldn't have to have anything to do with us. I wonder what it'd be like if after we moved on(here to GA-2100 miles) if my Father and his new family moved across country and ended up living 15 minutes from us until the day he died without never hearing a word since I was 1 year old. I wonder how that woul........oooops, my bad. I know exactly how that feels. So save your sob stories for someone who hasn't had it worse. Later, QD.

first of all, this isn't a fucking competition to see who the hell had it worse! and i never said i had it worse than anyone!!! i'm telling her that growing up with out a dad is rough, and i know that because i've dealt with it first hand.... and that i'm not basing my thoughts on the situation because i grew up in church being taught that way(because i did not grow up in church) at all....

everyone has different situations qd.... some harder than others... i'm sorry you had to read part of mine, and that it wasn't worse than yours.... you sir are a fucking tool... and i personally, am tired of hearing your sob stories as well... every chance you get you tell one, and let us all know how much of a west coast gangsta you were, and how hard your life has been. yet when someone else throws some insight out there it's not good enough cause it doesn't compare to your story!?!?!?!?

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first of all, this isn't a fucking competition to see who the hell had it worse! and i never said i had it worse than anyone!!! i'm telling her that growing up with out a dad is rough, and i know that because i've dealt with it first hand.... and that i'm not basing my thoughts on the situation because i grew up in church being taught that way(because i did not grow up in church) at all....

everyone has different situations qd.... some harder than others... i'm sorry you had to read part of mine, and that it wasn't worse than yours.... you sir are a fucking tool... and i personally, am tired of hearing your sob stories as well... every chance you get you tell one, and let us all know how much of a west coast gangsta you were, and how hard your life has been. yet when someone else throws some insight out there it's not good enough cause it doesn't compare to your story!?!?!?!?

You say something that was worth a shit?



Hmmm...

I didn't think you did. I'm sure the people with good insight and posting skills all thank you for destroying a decently took topic. Later, QD.

[Killer]

You say something that was worth a shit?



Hmmm...

I didn't think you did. I'm sure the people with good insight and posting skills all thank you for destroying a decently took topic. Later, QD.

first off, i openly admitted my mistake to jos about not seeing where she said the father could be a part of the childs life, and completely changed my tone with her after that... you're the one keeping the bullshit going with your "i've had it worse than you" bull crap... i simply stated my situation, as did william_jeff telling us his father passed at an early age. and you had to (like always) be better/worse than everyone else.

now the bullshit will stop when YOU and I stop going back and forth, and letting the topic be the only thing we discuss....





again SlwlybtngU, i in no way am judging you, or think your child would grow up to be a horrible person... I do think that you will save the child a lot of stress, and drama if you wait to find a father for the child... not just a sperm donor.

[quickdodge®]

first off, i openly admitted my mistake to jos about not seeing where she said the father could be a part of the childs life, and completely changed my tone with her after that... you're the one keeping the bullshit going with your "i've had it worse than you" bull crap... i simply stated my situation, as did william_jeff telling us his father passed at an early age. and you had to (like always) be better/worse than everyone else.

Yes you did, but in that same post, you decided it best to keep the shit up and post back me instead of just ignoring it.

now the bullshit will stop when YOU and I stop going back and forth, and letting the topic be the only thing we discuss....

Keep your posts worthwhile and I won't say anything about it. Don't judge or assume if you're not going to find out all the facts. And no need to argue the previous sentence because you admitted that you just assumed. Later, QD.