Baby?? No daddy...

[Killer]

OK, so I want to have a child and have considered all of my alternatives for pregnancy, and even though I want a child... I dont want to deal with a father. I know that sounds odd but I am not sure how to explain it to people. I am fully capable of having and taking care of a child by myself but cant bring myself to do artificial insemination(sp?) but at the same time I feel odd explaining to a guy that I am trying to get pregnant and dont really need him in the picture. If he wants to be there that is fine...But I just dont want any drama when it comes to the raising of the child.

What are your opinions? I am just kinda wondering what everyone else thinks.

i do apologize for not seeing this remark.... i read over the post 3 times before i posted, and i missed it everytime...
honestly... my mistake.

Why not try to post and give advice instead of being, ...well....your usual Christian acting self?.

first off this has nothing to do with my religion, and has everything to do with how my mother tried to keep my sister and i from our father... and even used us to hurt our father. had him arrested for showing up to pick us up on the weekends (as he was supposed to be doing... she would call him and say "come get the kids, they're ready" and then tell the police a different story and have them waiting on him. my parents have been divorced longer than i can remember... (i was a baby.. not sure my age.. like no more than a year) and i know first hand what it's like to have to go without seeing my father... and missing that male role model for quite some time as a child.

I'm way worse/better than you are at providing witty, intelligent, well thought out, rep-receiving sarcastic posts than you and even I know how to be serious and post accordingly to a simple query. Later, QD.

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