Sounds like a good way to get some on the side... I would't do it.. If you truely love the girl in which it sounds like you do, then head wouldn't matter anyway. If you recieve it then great, if not don't worrie about it, you don't love her for head right?

I believe you have the right to be mad, cause myself would be mad too... Just to have the words said in proposterious. G/L and its best you forgive and forget.