Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS
i'm the one pushing the birth control.
Good.

she's afraid of the side effects which is why she hasnt chose one.
That's fine and dandy, but what kind of "side effects" is she gonna have without it???? That's why I said you have to look at it logically. It may not "feel" quite right or may make you gain a little weight, but how will you "feel" and how much weight is she gonna gain WHEN she gets pregnant???

i cut sex off until we can find something she will either take, or I will go back to condoms.

You didn't say that before.


She doesnt like condoms for different reasons than I do. She gets irritated after a while with condoms. I, on the other hand, just dont like the feeling.

See above.


We both are monogamous. not too worried about STDs.

That's excellent.


I;m not sure who your rant was directed to, but a lot you mentioned i do already know.
You asked a question and I answered it. I also addressed several fools that suggested very stupid contraceptive methods. What's wrong with that?


And please do not EVER talk bad about my parents. I was not an accident child. That gets under my skin when you try to put down my family.
If you were planned, then my comments did not and do not apply to you so don't take it personal. I was basically trying to say that if you are HERE then your parents either A: didn't practice safe sex;or B: were planned. For some that are giving out terrible contraceptive advice here, it seems their parents choice was "A" since they don't seem to KNOW what safe sex is themselves. Follow? It seems you atleast KNOW what safe sex is, so again my comment didn't apply to you.


And jamese this is not a different girl. same girl i've been dealing with after the lunatic chick. I no longer change girls at random anymore.
That's one way to describe it......