Why is it so hard to save?

[Halfwit]

you are more focused/financially mature than i am in LONG way. even though you maybe still at home, even when i was at home i never had money saved. now that im out on my own, i see the need to save, but i continue to spend. at least now i'm at a stand still w/ my truck and when i get my car lowered and the lip ill be str8 for a while..

i am not at home, i "own" a home, being so young i didnt want it in my name ( too much $$) so its in my fathers name, but i handle finances of it, i have 1 roomate and it works rly well. i see myself to be very financially responsible, dont buy misc crap alot (cd's shoes, clothes) but i do impulse buys witch can be worse..

im excited that car expenses are through and i can focus on saving, i have adream of "self wealth" witch doesnt mean a business oranything, but jsut saving over the years, my goal for when i hit 21 is to have in excess of 20,000$ in my account. and thats not me being all uber-saving, still buying things i want (or feel i deserve for working ect..lol) but ill ne extremely happy when/if i hit the 20k mark