good way to not accept an apology

[srtowner]

Well it defiantly sounds like a fucked up situation but it's not like yall were dating or anything. Your rings not on her finger so she's free to screw whoever she pleases. But I do agree with you about the whole apology thing.

[Sack Attack]

i dont belive is saying sorry....if i piss someone off such as a friend, i will not say im sorry, i will just act like it never happened and when they do to, it makes eeryone feel more comfortable....just like it never happened, sorry is just an easy way out of everything, everyone acts like its a powerful word and its not.....

like if someone calls my girl a slut bitch or something, who fuckin cares, its just a word...same as all the other words to me

[StupidBikerBoy]

If you 2 have that much of a past, you will forgive her eventually. I wouldn't forget this though, no matter what happens in the future. There is a lesson to be learned here in your situation. It may be a sign that you 2 have shitty communication, or that she just shouldn't be relied upon. Thats for you to figure out.

But I think you handled it good. If it was me, it would have been similar. But at this point I would probably be givin her the cold shoulder for awhile. Letting her sweat it out and know that you wont have this shit. Oh yeah, I'd be playin a little more now also, just to show that I can.

[2.0civic]

If you 2 have that much of a past, you will forgive her eventually. I wouldn't forget this though, no matter what happens in the future. There is a lesson to be learned here in your situation. It may be a sign that you 2 have shitty communication, or that she just shouldn't be relied upon. Thats for you to figure out.

But I think you handled it good. If it was me, it would have been similar. But at this point I would probably be givin her the cold shoulder for awhile. Letting her sweat it out and know that you wont have this shit. Oh yeah, I'd be playin a little more now also, just to show that I can.

yeah man..shes tried calling me the last two days and ive either sent her to voicemail or just answered and told her i was in meeting. She tried cathcing me on aim earlier and i put up my awaty message for a bit and came on and she was like "are you busy or just dont want to talk"

[Jaimecbr900]

Cold shoulder for a while for her.

Next time, don't be coy with her and either grab it and YOU do the making out or cut her loose and don't let it bother you when she makes out with someone else. I know there's history, but if you're intentions weren't clear, then you can't completely blame her. It just seemed that way from the story, so if there are other details I may stand corrected.

Either way, it wasn't a cool move on her part. She should be made to sweat it a little. Personally, I'd tell her (or yell at her depending on the mood) straight up I was PISSED OFF royally and why. If she gave me some half ass appology, I'd do as you did and tell her to go screw herself. If she gave me a real appology, I'd still let her sweat a little and then forgive her and let it go.

[2.0civic]

Cold shoulder for a while for her.

Next time, don't be coy with her and either grab it and YOU do the making out or cut her loose and don't let it bother you when she makes out with someone else. I know there's history, but if you're intentions weren't clear, then you can't completely blame her. It just seemed that way from the story, so if there are other details I may stand corrected.

Either way, it wasn't a cool move on her part. She should be made to sweat it a little. Personally, I'd tell her (or yell at her depending on the mood) straight up I was PISSED OFF royally and why. If she gave me some half ass appology, I'd do as you did and tell her to go screw herself. If she gave me a real appology, I'd still let her sweat a little and then forgive her and let it go.

Pretty much i was invited BY HER through her friends is how it went down which i guess is why im so pissed off lol

BTW, thanks for not writing a book in my thread lol

shortest post evar!