ok, this is princess12's fiance' and the whole thing is that my mom cried to me last nite cuse i wasnt gonna be there and she said that he doesnt care if im not there for chrismas day or new years or easter or her birthday but she only wants one day out of the year... chrismas eve. that is all. and my pama.. (grandparent)... was absoutly heartbroken when my mom said that i wouldnt be there. my cousin is flying in from north dakota for 3 days just ot be here for eve, my cousin is leaving jan. 3rd for ny to live. its going to be the last time that we might be together as a whole family. i dont know what to do... i cant leave cuse ive already put mymmom and pama through tears for this... i know im an asshole but i got some heart left. i have no problem going chrismas day with her or anything, all im doing is asking for chrismas eve.

am i wrong for wanting this... sould i feal bad? please let me know if im wrong.

o yea... and i missed thanksgiving and went with her to ellijay for her dads family for thanksgiving then to sneville for her moms side for thanksgiving.