well for us, drews family lives in florida and my parents live in alabama so we went to his parents for thanksgiving and we will do christmas at my parents..

next year we will flip it around and do thanksgiving at my parents and christmas at his it kinda stucks but thats what happens when parents live out of state!

if they are within a few hours driving of eachother i say you should try to make it to both.. it may be hard but being with family is what the holidays are all about right?