aight, so check it....

[ahmonrah]

I still don't get the controversy

well......some people think that men/women have specific roles in relationships.
ex. john smith thinks that his woman should cater to him and be at his beck and call.

jane doe thinks that it's the job of the man to chase after her....always suggesting little events for them both to do, while she jsut sits back and enjoys the attention......

ex. over.