he will most likely NOT be eligible for allamony because he is perfectly able to get a job...unless he just really has no dignity and becomes one of the very few men who actually petition for allamony from their wives... and he won't get custody of the kids...she will, because 1) she's the mom and the court systems always favor putting the kids w/their mother, and 2)she is more financially stable apparently...
yes, he will be ordered to pay child support unless they get 50/50 split custody of the children, in which case i dont think it's required.

the laws are kinda iffy & each situation is always different, so until they go to court, you really cant speculate on what will happen.

that's bullshit that he's trying to blame the divorce on her though...thats a real slap in the face. after all, she is supporting a man that claims to be in love with someone else...what a douche.