Heather, I know its hard, ive lost several friends already downrange and know i will miss more b4 it is over. The other day i met a guy who was MIA/POW from Vietnam, for 3 years he was in Vietnam thought to be dead to his family, but one day he came home. With the enemy we are fighting now they love to brag about who/what they destroy so if his parents or the Army hasnt received word that he is actually KIA there is a REALLY REALLY GOOD chance he is still alive and soon will be liberated. My heart goes out to you and Paul's family!! Like i said before if there is anything i can do for you or his parents let me know!! I work here at the Passenger Terminal at Ramstein AB so if they are ever flying in for more updates let me know so i can get things arranged for them, bc traveling thru the mil can be a hassle at times. Till then God Bless and God speed.