Appreciate the supportive comments. Here are my thoughts on the situation. No you wouldn't be a homewrecker nor do i think that was ever an option. I have no desire to be rude about it because i think Matt can handle his own at the same time you making any references that his kindness was to be taken more than friend is not settling well with me nor him.
I think that you really need to take a step back and work on trying to get your shit straight, stop telling people what you are and what you have and just go do it. I am 35 and I have earned everything i have on my own, including my respect and dignity. nothing has been given to me, i have busted my ass for YEARS to get my home, cars etc. My materialistics items are cool and I am proud of my accomplishments, but the reality is that means NOTHING! Cause really all i have is my word! it is all about how you live and keeping your integrity. If you don't have that you have NOTHING. so my suggestion is to stop fighting everyone and go do what it is you say you are and come back in 10 years to tell us about it.
M1G
or you can just claim other peoples shit
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