damn................I totally forgot about this. However, there are some clarification I'd need to make.
1. I didn't say all that bad thing directly at her. Anyone that knew me or at least talked to me before, know that I use my words carefully. Especially, I don't say something mean straight to their faces.
2. Bajjani, I know you're trying to be fair and all that, but you missed the entire point. What's up with saying I got a lil rise out of her and stuff? Have you read what I posted? She's VERY Skinny, and her body got absolutely nothing. No, it didn't worth it. I have better class than that. That's why I said some people should look in the mirror and dress properly.
Metaphorically, imagine Fat Joe wearing tight muscle shirts and tight swim trunk. That's not how he'd dress.
She'd look so much better if she posed while wearing clothes that's appropriate for her body, instead of trying to wear the smallest bikinis and doing stupid poses that look stupid and trash.
Harsh or not, she needs to face reality. May be her friends were too nice to say anything straight to her. But she needs to know what she's doing, it doesn't make her look good, only makes people to think bad of her.
My Thread's topic may have been offensive, but seriously, that's the fact and that's what I see. I don't first think bad of people or whatever, I always give them benefit of the doubt.
She was very conceited and boasted all about herself. Again, that's conceited, and NOT the confidence that I saw in her. I politedly told her that it's okay and that I already have planned. I also gave her suggestion to "be a better model material." She took it a lil offensive, but it was for her own good. If I was a bad person to start with, I'd have bash her all the way and intentionally saved her pics right away so that people can have fun photoshopping her. I admit, I had that thought, but my guilt catched up to me after I made this thread.
Bajjani, you said you're mature and have respect for people. I really appreciate you have that for the girl we're talking about. But you immediately trashing my opinion, isn't that being biased?
I appologize if people thing my topic was offensive. However, without know what happenned between our conversations, please don't automatically jump into conclusion that I'm a bad guy to start with. I'm a very patient guy and have high tolerance, but if I'm to to think bad of someone, most of the time, they're doing something very wrong.
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