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theres PLENTY of women/girls born and raised here but that dont make them "southern"
they gotta have roots in the south, not their family moved from Taiwan and they just live here
theres a difference
and a true southern girl is better than a yankee bitch ANY DAY :cheers:
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Originally Posted by SL65AMG
AMEN.
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Originally Posted by SL65AMG
How so? Is it b/c she is fatter? Perhaps the extra layer of body fat keeps you warm on those bitterly cold nights? Perhaps it's her inability to form a complete sentence? I think it's the sweet southern accent that makes her sound like Gomer Pyle.
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Originally Posted by C17H17NCl2*HCl
They never existed in Georgia. You'll run into one on occasion, but she's just a transplant. Try the northeast and/or the west coast.Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
BTW, southern accents are considered a speech impediment.
*Banjos start to play*
I never understood people who have so little to be proud of that all they can brag about is where they were born.
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Originally Posted by PRiMAdonna
My own frame of reference. I'm willing to bet one of the following applies to you, IF you are truly southern:
1-Uneducated or think "fancy book learnin'" is for the uppity folks
2-Considered clinically obese or have several members of the family that are
3-Have type 2 diabetes or several family members that do
4-Think having children is the ULTIMATE goal in life
5-Someone in your family is inbred
6-Thinks fine dining is the Olive Garden
7-Thinks Larry the Cable Guy is funny
8-Thinks Jeff Foxworthy is the Redneck's Dave Chapelle
9-Thinks George Bush is the greatest president since Jimmy Carter
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Originally Posted by Fast Shadow
You just answered your own question.
Were you left in a dumpster by your teenage mother? ;)
actually, none of the above apply to me, and i have lived in GA my whole life.Quote:
Originally Posted by C17H17NCl2*HCl
This applies to me so I guess I am a southerner :dunno:Quote:
Originally Posted by C17H17NCl2*HCl
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Originally Posted by CRAMERIZKING
The only positive thing I can say about southern women is that they are low maintenance. It doesn't take much to please them. I guess they are able to enjoy the simple things in life w/o attaching some monetary/elitist label. :ninja:
Northeast - High Maintenance & Never HappyQuote:
Originally Posted by C17H17NCl2*HCl
West Coast - Homos & Plastic Barbie Dolls
Every area has their good and bad points. To say that the NE or West Coast are superior is retarded.
Have you ever heard someone from New York or the surrounding area talk? It's horrendous. :no:Quote:
Originally Posted by C17H17NCl2*HCl
Hmm... im from Boston and I got married at 24... although never a minute in my life did I expect to be "kept" in fact I like working :)
I myself was starting to doubt southern girls myself for quite sometime. It seemed i got treated much better by transplants from Fl, the NE or Cali. I'm a southern yankee..born in Miami (a very northern state..just not geographically), to a family who was from NY/PA.
But it happens when you least expect it. I was single for over 2 yrs and went on a mtn run with some friends and ended up meeting this really hott girl who came on the run.... lets see..... she's well educated, likes cars, can drive like hell, has a stable career... did i mention shes hott?? ;)
Funny thing is, i promised myself awhile back that i wouldnt get a girl who was into cars. Thats my hobby, for my time and i didnt want to bore some girl with it...there are plenty of girls who dont like us "car guys"...so i planned on keeping my hobby to myself...well, that sure as hell went to shit :D :D :D
So yeah... no hitting on my girl on here ,guys... but girls are welcomed to :boobies:
And she doesn't yell at you for calling and waking her up at 1:30am on a work night. I do appreciate the thought ;)
If you want to meet girls like me, you have to find us in our hobbies. A lot of professional women I know go for outdoor things like hiking and biking... for me personally, you'd never, ever meet me if you looked for me at a bar or club... and a lot of hard working women I know are the same way.
Im with Jen on this one! My husband met me at the gym.. I know that sounds cheesy but thats where I spend a lot of my time when im not at work :)
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Originally Posted by JennB
Like e-Harmony or sitting outside of a Starbucks pretending you are people watching at a French cafe sipping your soy caramel macchiato?
I think if you find someone that you love and you are ready to get married I see no problem in it. I am getting married to Chris in January we love each other and all that sappy stuff.....we met through one of my friends and I have never been so happy. We both have jobs and I would never let him work himself to death cause I dont want to work thats dumb I like to work its entertaining...... :D
I'll admit b4 reading this I thought, "O-really. what now? stupid country girls or something?"Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
BUT, after reading this I 100% agree. it's like:
Me: "so what do you do?"
her: "I go to school"
Me: "what for?"
her: " I want to be a Pharmacist"
me: cool, why?
her: I want to make tons of money....and that's what my parents want me to do.
1 hour later......
her: yeah, I want 4 kids and I want to be a stay @ home mom.
me: so you don't want to work?
her: no, I want my husband to support me so I can take care of my(notice the MY not our) kids.
me: so why are you goin to....... never mind.
it's like their brains and ovaries aren't communicating. :screwy:
Okay, my first post, I was just kidding.. I don't even know you AWD OWNZ U, I just know that we've gotten into an argument before over something moronic.
As for the person who posted all of the stereotypes: In the South, which just happens to be where you are, I'm assuming; you will find all different types of people, much like the North.
1.) "Fancy book learnin" (Which is a term that may have been used by older "southerners"; however, I have never heard that term) - I'm only assuming you mean reading? Personally, I think education is the foundation on which one needs to grow. I think everyone should have the right to learn to read and write and attend school. Aquiring knowledge is not a priveledge, but a necessity. I bet you didn't know that in the GREAT state of Georgia, if you are under the age of 17, you must attend school in some form (whether it be, home school, high school, or college) to accept the priveledge of driving.Quote:
Originally Posted by C22H19N3O4
2.) I am not obese. My mother was obese, but since she is fortunate to have a very upstanding job (meaning, she attended college and graduated with honors, only to make well over $150,000/year AND had 3 children by the age of 24) she was fortunate enough to save enough money ($76,000) in one year to pay for a surgery that should have been covered by insurance. My mother and father, together, make well over $450,000/year because they both were very smart in the decisions they made for their lives. Guess what?! They were born and raised right here in the "dirty, dirty" south.
3.) Diabetics live all over the world. You were very misinformed to even include that comment on your "must be from the south" list.
4.) Some women do want to be "stay-at-home" moms. I do not fall under that category. I do have a child on the way, and I know that I have to support my child in any way possible, especially financially. He will be the highlight of my life from now until the day I die. People with no children will not understand that until they experience their own miracle.
5.) If you want to get technical, somewhere in everyone's kin, there is an inbred because this world started out with two people. How do you think more were made?
6.) I love the Olive Garden, but it is not fine dining. If you'd like, I'll post up several restaurants all over the United States that are considered fine dining.. You should go to a little place in Boca Raton and look for a restaurant name Marlacici's... Fine dining, sir.
7.) Larry the Cable Guy is a poor excuse for a comedian. He is obese, discusting, and crude.
8.) No one can ever be Dave Chapelle.
9.) I think George H. and George W. have both made some serious mistakes. George H. should have killed Sadam when he had the opportunity, and George W. should have done more for the country after the 911 attacks. Want more, just ask!
Now, if you have further comments and stereotypes, please feel free to list them and I'll critique them as well.
This statement applies to me %100Quote:
Originally Posted by C22H19N3O4
Actually one of my buddies met his wife on a hiking trip. None of us wanted to say it but we all kind of wondered how he ended up with such a hot girl. lol But like I said they are already married. I spent some time with my buddies hiking club, zero attractive single women, lots of tool guys. DropTopDrifter, you can't double count Jenn. :tongue1:Quote:
Originally Posted by JennB
How old were you? There is a girl at my gym who you used to always talked to me and smile at me and stuff. I dunno I just feel like a bastard hitting on girls at the gym.Quote:
Originally Posted by AudiGirlTT
EXACTLY. That is EXACTLY what I am talking about! Ha funny you should mention the my not our kids thing too. So true. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by {X}Echo419
Yes I've been told that you hate me before. I don't even remember what we argued about.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
I do not hate you at all... I do not hate anyone. I just don't agree with a lot of things you say.. There's nothing wrong with that!;)Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
I just don't see how you can really have an opinion of me without ever having met me? People say plenty of stupid things on the internet but can be cool in person, so I try not to judge. It's not like I even post very much and I don't think I really know any of your friends or anything? Well whatever, you are entitled to your opinion.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
Anyway, so I'm calm now so I might as well tell the story that made me post. I met this girl who was damn amazing. She's into cars (used to be a mechanic), does real estate investment with her dad (also big in my family), wanted to be a teacher, loves animals, hot as hell, funniest girl I've met in a long time, smart, etc... Anyway I was totally stoked to be talking with this girl. So we go out on a date and are chatting over dinner. So I'm talking to her about jobs and what not and then it comes out, "Well I can't wait to have children and be a stay at home mom." :( All that sexy ambition and drive slowly fading. Then we kept talking in that direction and I asked her if she ever wanted to live outside of the Atlanta area, "No I want to be close to my family but if my husband ever got a job somewhere I would probably move with him." Well she knew I was moving and things have slowly (or not so slowly haha) unravelled ever since.
That's not to mention the girl I was talking with before her and a point I never brought up. Tall, blonde, good looking, biomedical PhD, funny, really smart, yoga instructor (FTMFW), marathon runner, etc... We hang out a few times and get along amazingly. Until she realizes I'm an athiest, "Oh I could never date someone who doesn't believe in God. Sorry, but we can still hang out." Needless to say it was pretty dead for me at that point. I totally understand were she is coming from, but it's frustrating none the less.
Understandable. You got let down because a girl has different views than you were led to believe. All girls are wishy washy, not just southern girls.. Obviously, she's very close with her family. If I was that close with mine (As in, operated a family business) I don't know if I'd want to leave either... My dad is an entrepreneur.. I would take the business over, but I can't reach the peddles (He owns a boat/trucking company)!! Anywho, back on track, you may have found the "perfect" girl, but you'll never know that because you let her go. So what if she wanted to be a stay at home mom, we don't always get what we want... She might have realized later on that it wasn't right for her... Oh well, people change... You're set in your ways obviously, and I wish you luck finding someone that's willing to change for you. I know I'm not going to change for anyone because no one else is helping me live my life! I have to do what is best for me and for my child.Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
By the way, I said I don't hate you.. We just have different opinions on some issues.. I haven't developed any opinion of you because I do not know you.
i love southern girls.
Exactly how many yankee women have you met?Quote:
Originally Posted by SL65AMG
Ok not all yankee women are bitches first off (yes I am a yankee) I have lived in GA for over 10 years so not really sure if I still fit in that category.
But I know plenty of women, who work full time jobs, and are married with kids, and can balance their lives. I also know plenty of women who are stay at home mom's and enjoy it period.
Myself, i work two jobs, and still am able to make my boyfriend feel wanted, and (try) take care of him.
Sounds like to me, the author of this post, meet the psycho crazy southern girls. Not all yankee women are bitches...
And yes I do agree that it all has something to do with how people are raised.
they never existed in georgia. hmm...Quote:
Originally Posted by C22H19N3O4
have you ever heard of the term "southern belle"? have you ever heard of "southern hospitality"? probably not since your family has been "transplanted" here from fucking ASIA.(if not then my apologies) THAT is a "transplant"
in the RIGHT part of georgia or the south you would meet "real" southerners and "real" southern women. in atlanta there are Very few if ANY. go to Savannah and youll see "southerners".
secondly, if a southern accent is considered a speech impediment, EVERYONE who doesnt speak "english" correctly has a speech impediment. Blacks, whites, yellows, browns, whatever.
"ooh joo blake too fast I no see you stop" - azn
"yall go wait right down over yonder and ill be there in a jiffy" - "country folk"
"nah nigga you betta step off fore i bust a mothafuckin cap in yo ass" - black
"i like dis watch, i go buy dis watch" - indians/ pakis whatever
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i never said all of them were bitches....Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
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OK...
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Originally Posted by babygurl
I'm sorry did I give you the impression that *I* was the one who ended it? You do you know how hard it is to find a woman like that? And by hard I mean damn near impossible. lol I wasn't gonna give it up that easy, at least at this point, but apparently she had a differing of opinion. I'm pretty easy going with women, I will usually give them more chances than they probably deserve but differences like tend to drive people apart. When the most important thing to you is to get married and have kids, you can be sure you are looking for that in a guy. Really the trick of it is, not only would I like to find a woman who is all those things I said, but it would be nice to find a woman who is looking for those things in a man.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
Thanks, I think? haha If I ever chance to see you, I'll come say hi. I don't see where that would happen, but ya never know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
I think a lot of you are mis-understanding what myself and others are saying. It's not that I have a problem with a woman who wants to get married and have kids. It's just that down here they 1) all want to do it when they are 19 which skims off a layer of good women before they even get to the age I would consider getting married 2) that's all they bring to the table, I would like a woman who is a social and financial equal, a woman with a career and interesting things to talk about, not just a woman who can cook, clean, and have children.Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
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Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
I dont think I misunderstood anything, but what you guys fail to realize is maybe a women who has a career, and all the money, and the education only ever wanted was to be a mom, because that is just them. They see nothing wrong with sitting at home, and taking care of a child, or cooking and cleaning, that is hard work...or did you fail to realize that??
Most women I know who are just stay at home moms, dont just sit on their ass and eat bon bon's, I am sorry but life is not as easier nor funny as "Married with Children" This isnt really directed towards, you but someone posted up I bet all you wanted to do was sit at home, and be a mother...there is nothing wrong with that...also there is nothing wrong with being a career women.
And you basically want the Barbie doll looking women, who has the degree, the money, the social skills, the all around super women? Correct? Or maybe just something close to it? Well you dont always get what you want. Maybe the women you are searching for, is the women you dont need. The politcally correct women, with the uppity education, the money, and the shared interests, might just to be plain boring for you or another guy/girl (cant leave the lesbians out) I mean honestly if things were that easy would life be worth living? IMO NO!!! But then again I want a challenge in everything I do, and who I date. Granted I am a female, but I believe we both have the same goal.
Southern women, who wanted to be married asap, tend usually to have insecurities, one reason they push the subject early on in the relationship, is because they need the security to belong, and feel loved. Like someone else stated that "Its all in how the girl was raised" Now that statement applies to both males and females. Now some females, acutally are ready for marriage, and dont need to be married just to feel secure about themselves, and their life. I know plenty of females who got married at 18 who were happy being a wife and mother, who also were going to college, to get an education.
My mother (a women of yesteryear) Was pushed out of her house at 16 was married by 17 and had two kids by the time she was 20. but my mother has no formal education besides a Certfited EMT and Builder, and a couple other things, and also has has successful businesses, and sold them, and started something new. She has 5 kids, and did it all. Honestly if she could redo it, she would go to college, and get a good paying job, then have kids. But sometimes, because of things that happen in life some people feel they dont have that option.
hmm ok I am done...
I feel kinda like a tool talking to girls @ the gym. it feels like all they want to do is look @ MY tits....and ass. garsh!Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
maybe I should switch to Northern girls. like Korean or Japanese? :thinking: damn Viet and Thai girls are killing me. :ninja:
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soy caramel macchiato
I didn't say it was easy or that there is anything wrong with it. It's just not what I'm looking for, and apparently a bunch of other guys here too.Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
She doesn't have to be a supermodel PhD from MIT or something. As long as I find her attractive that's fine by me as far as looks go. I don't care if she went to college to be honest. A lot of college people are just there because they have nothing better to do. I just want a girl who is driven and has goals outside of a family. If she pulls herself up through the world without a degree that's certainly ok by me, I can respect that. Intelligence doesn't come from school, that's just often a reflection of it. I don't care in the least how much money a girl has. Why would anyone date somebody without social skills? lolQuote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
Frankly I feel like I've dated enough at this point to know what I want. I've gone out with girls who work retail and are literally from a trailer park to girls who come from wealthy families and are getting PhDs. I know what I want and I don't think I should have to settle, nor will I.Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
Like I said a lot of the good women down here get married really young. I've met my friends wives before and been like damn where did a woman like you come from? I guess that's why they are married by now.Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
Good for your mother, she sounds like an impressive woman. My point was not that getting married young is terrible. My point was that I would never be ready to get married that young and down here that means you are largely stuck with the left overs. Which are all women who think they should already be married, probably aren't for a reason, and are desperate. Plus of course the occasional woman like Jenn. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by babygurl
Totally man, I go to the gym for myself not to be eye raped by a bunch of horny women. Just because I care about my body doesn't mean I'm some piece of meat that wants to be molested by every slut I run across. "My face is up here bitch!"Quote:
Originally Posted by {X}Echo419
The asia thing took me a second. lol
That's one hell of a bonus though ain't it?? :lmfao: :goodjob:Quote:
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
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Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
you must live OTP
OTP girls are totally diff than ITP girls.
living in the middle of the city, everyones single. its great.
OTP = lame.
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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
If you want to debate CDC stats, mortality figures, educational numbers, incidents of heart disease and type 2 diabetes stemming from obesity, you'll lose. I've posted numerous studies/figures related to the obesity and stupidity epidemic sweeping the south. Unfortunately, the health section no longer exists. If you think you can disprove quantitative data derived from years of studies, I sincerely hope you come armed with something better than a herpes joke and "ma and pa make $450,000 a year."
Just b/c there are some southerners that exceed expectations does not mean that is the norm. Stating statistical fact is not stereotyping. Does the truth hurt that much? A handful of successful Georgians does not translate into representative data for all of Georgia. I'm sure you already knew that. :rolleyes:
Was that supposed to hit a nerve? I'm sure your GED has at least provided you with the mental capacity to produce funnier remarks. I won't hold my breath.Quote:
Originally Posted by SL65AMG
You are claiming that southern belles are of a higher grade than "regular" southern women? Where's the side-by-side comparison? Do southern belles put out on the 3rd date instead of the first? Are they a group of highly educated debutantes that solve crimes from a remote location in Savannah?
Enlighten me with your infinite wisdom. :lmfao: