Derek read slowly so you do not miss where I stated " I AM NOT BEING HATEFUL" meaning I am keeping my cool no matter what is said or done right now. But yes you have been quite mean along with her in return or starting. No matter what, you have also allowed someone in your side of life walk all over her continuously. I am not here to argue I was here trying to figure out things about "TIFF" and "Brandy" and cleared all the voicemails, text messages and however people are sending thises messages on here to me. Excuse me for trying to get some information. I am signing off these boards for you all.