the people being negative were the ones that had had abortions or would consider it... hate to say it, but it's true... they HATE to see someone happy
the people being negative were the ones that had had abortions or would consider it... hate to say it, but it's true... they HATE to see someone happy
yup this girl at my work is like... """dude babies are the worst thing anyone can think of being happy about...Originally Posted by DnBmama05
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... i wanted one and then once it was here i didnt and got a abortion, well i had 3 in my life but no man will ever be there except for that baby so it isnt worth a minute of your mind """
people just dont know how to say congrats and move on if they do not approve... not my mom so the opinion does not matter![]()
Originally Posted by Scrappy
and you are correct there...
grand prix.....
Originally Posted by DnBmama05
not everyone is like that dear...I knwo a few people who have had abortions, and suggested it to someone....its not that they dont want to see them happy...I for one believe in choices, I have suggested it to friends, and that was only as supprt, rather you see that as good or bad, that is my choice. But please dont mistake everyone with not wanting to see others happy!
I do think having a baby is a wonderful thing, but sometimes people are just not ready, and yes adoption is another choice...again its all about choices!
I will say this there are ways to protect yourself, but sometimes not even condoms or birth control work...
Edit: not trying to attack you either![]()
grand prix.....
Originally Posted by babygurl
no, i don't take it as an attack at alli definitely didn't mean for it to sound like ALL people who do that or think that... which i'm sure it probably did... but just from experiences i had... they were the only people who would have any feeling toward that... if you haven't been in the situation then i think you would probably be indifferent to someone else's situation. on a side note, i have never liked other people's kids around me before i had a child... they were just snotty nosed and annoying... i never babysat kids or anything, let alone having a snotty nosed one of my own... but after i had my son i have sooo much more patience for other people's children
kind of irrelevant, but actually having a child can change someone's outlook on them so much.