your child is low on money. just started new job but the training class has a tuition. but the tuition is refunded after 90 days. child didnt know UNTIL classes started because it was NEVER mentioned until then. The child does not live at home and has to make it on his own.

Do you:
1) Give your child the money but request to be paid back. which the child has already agreed to do.
2) First chew your child out, tell him dont think you can rely on us for money when you need it, but then give it to him
3) say oh well you are SOS.