You know what man... u prolly too yung to know how to remedy that. You need to go fishing MORE, whether he is home or not. Be the "kool kid that fishes here". Before long, it's "Hey, you guys want some of these? I will leave a few in your sink." After a while it's "Adam, we made dinner... hungry?" Then BAM, you're fuckin'! The trick is to ask for the number, and then leave a message: This is Adam, I was wondering if I can fish this weekend?" That gives her the ability to call YOU back when dumbfuck is away. ALSO, be careful w/ older women. The ONLY chick I never cheated on was an older woman... I didn't understand why I never cheated on her until YEARS later. Basically she took my libido away b/c I was ALWAYS sexxed up. If I said "Hey sweetie, me and the fellas are hitting the club tonite and we're leaving at 10." you BETTER belive she weaseled my ass into a fuck fest from 7pm to 9:30. I was 20, and she was 36. She basically made it where I ALWAYS was within a few minutes of bustin' a nut (or 10) when I went out. My boys were calling me a BITCH and "lovestruck" over my "granny-girl", when basically I was just oversexxed!!! LOL. She outclassed me b/c I was a BOY and she was a WOMAN. Hell, if you're not careful "Fishstick-Chick" might hook into you so good that you are over there cleaning up, cuttin' grass, and washing a Bimmer every other weekend. LOL.