Well I would have to say the worst part about the whole thing IMO is the period of right before the divorce and moving and seperating all you stuff like wedding pictures and special items like wedding rings and what not. The reason for the period right before the divorce was she dropped the I slept with person A (was one of my friends) bomb on me and then expected me to brush it off like it was nothing.

The actual divorce part sucked ass trying to get my X, who wouldnt be discribed as a rational person when upset, to agree on child custody stuff.

Since I was the one divorcing her it wasnt to bad emotional for me. I was pissed as hell at her and didnt want to have anything to do with her so that made it a hell of alot easier.

EDIT: keep in mind I am only 20...