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    she needs to find a new man and work on her BS detector

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    Quote Originally Posted by admin
    she needs to find a new man and work on her BS detector
    I agree, and she's been right on (she got an uneasy feeling from day one, but thought it was just her imagination).. This guy is good... I really think he might even be a sociopath... He fools everyone...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
    I agree, and she's been right on (she got an uneasy feeling from day one, but thought it was just her imagination).. This guy is good... I really think he might even be a sociopath... He fools everyone...
    ok, let's see if i got this straight, claims $85k a year as an engineer (plus military $) and bounces at a bar....hrmmm? Is standing at a door checking ID's a way to pick up chicks or just a hobby of his?

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    Quote Originally Posted by speedminded
    ok, let's see if i got this straight, claims $85k a year as an engineer (plus military $) and bounces at a bar....hrmmm? Is standing at a door checking ID's a way to pick up chicks or just a hobby of his?
    I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
    I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!
    Shit, i know i'm not making anywhere near that but know what can be done with it and I'm looking forward to it That with the military benefits would be more than enough to get a loan or be a partner in OWNING a small bar or club.

    Good looking out but all that info and didn't get a current address, especially if he claimed to be a homeowner?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cav-E-R
    I called him out on that a while back... I said, why would you need to bounce at a bar when you're making 85 g's? He said, he loves dealing with people. Not really a good excuse, but whatever!
    How much he makes has nothing to do w/ this thread. I drive a 91 Si hatch daily and I make his salary look like lunch money. This is SIMPLE. The fact that she has had to go behind him to investigate him ALREADY means that they lack the 1 thing that EVERY relationship needs... trust. The fact of WHAT she found out means nothing... HEAR ME OUT BEFORE YOU FLAME.

    Let's say she called BS and got a BG check done on him and found out that he saved 10 kids from a burning building and is a volunteer librarian in his spare time. THAT would mean nothing either, b/c SOMETHING prompted the search for more information... that "something" = LACK OF TRUST. You got no trust, you got NOTHING!

    The DAY I gotta sneak behind some1 I am dating is the day that I am calling it off. If I want some1 I need to sleep w/ 1 eye open around, I can use my ENEMIES for that, not my gf.

    ALSO, like every1 on the planet who is 2 seconds old or older, he has a past. So do you, so do I, so does God. People grow, people change. Now his history is DEFINITELY indicative of his character b/c of the multiple occurences, but every1 can change. Some people change for the good, and some for the worst.

    FINALLY, women who think men like this "will get the hint" by ignoring him is wrong. TELL him EXACTLY what you want from him, and tell him that is your final answer. Do not expect him to just "get it". For 1, that's tacky, and for 2 he shouldn't HAVE to b/c she DID date him... you do not date some1 w/out knowing how to talk to them and tell them what's on your mind. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and walk away. If he is really not worth it in the end, then that's what you need to do. Then move on... he is 1 guy out of EVERY OTHER GUY ON THE PLANET, pick one of those and move on.

    Then drink beer.
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