ive been in a situation where i guy tried his best to get me to hit him and he was yelling in face....actin crazy and i hit him and for that i got hit on .........i tried my best to fight back but i couldnt. that doesnt mean i desrved or asked for it. so does a guy get to hit a woman and its ok casue you cant take it but when a guy acts like abitch and a woman hits him she gets a her ass whoop....its like you loose in any situation