Quote Originally Posted by Tasuki_Civic
nah i mean it is wrong but men misunderstand what type of female women are. cause i dayum sure wont take no shit from anyone and will say what i need or want to say when im pissed. but that doesnt mean i want you to hit me.

you jus have to know tha difference. women who love that shit...i cant explain how you know when they want you to do it. i dont know cause i dont want a man to hit me. but even if it goes as far as you lifting your hand....dont take it there just get tha hell away from her or get her out of your site
Now I feel you on that. I think that the reason that dudes have problems hitting girls is because when if it was a guy that was doing that kind of jawing off, that normally means that you are about to fight.

Girls are more likely to speak their mind right then and there, while I think that guys wait and a fight is normally a combination of seperate incidents (why do you keep talking to my girl etc etc, past tense stuff)

Not to say that guys don't just throw down sometimes, but the type of talking that a woman would do would be normal for her, but to a guy its a direct challenge. Kind back to the whole men internalize pain etc etc....you wait till the pot boils over insteed of dealing with it when it happens.

The one time I have wanted to hit a girl was she was just being a total bitch, and kept doing little shit like small slaps to the face and hits to the head (small enough that she could act like she was playing around). If it was a dude it def. would have gone down.

Thing is though, by the next day she totally was over it, while I thought about it for a while, that goes back to the dealing with it right there.

The one thing I have to say about people saying they would never hit a woman, you have to remember from your fights with dudes the rage you feel, and how rational thought all but stops. Not saying thats everyone, but it is hard as hell to control.