REAL TALK thinkfast......... she sounds like a keeper. you need to go to her and lay it down to her as real as possilbe and let her know that she doesnt have to at like that and that tell her if she is the best person inher group that means she needs new friends. you friends should always challenge you to do more than you can. and i for some reason i think you really like this chick.......so i think you need to let her know that her man is seeing something thats doesnt look rite. because its bothering you and you know she could do better. talking to someone wont hurt. but if she doesnt change ( well thats up to you)