I had to make my own topic!!

[thinkfast®]

It sounds like a phase homie but have you talked to her and told her this. Maybe she thinks this is what you want since you grew up around it. Just tell her straight up how you feel about her 'new persona'

finally some real talk LOL

yea man I tell her plenty of things, and the way she acts its like a joke for all my homeboys and people around me, cause they all know what she has goin for her, and that this whole “crunk” persona aint her true self. Readin some of these responses I think she feels the need to impress people or kind of “fit in”… and not with me, cause I am as far from crunk as you can get, at least my mentality is... see from the get go she cared a whole lot what people thought, and I got her out of that mentality, but I think she’s fallin back into it; she got new friends, chicks that don’t have nothing goin for em, some got kids, others change boyfriends more then thongs, and that’s never been her.. I don’t know what to tell her, it just got me trippin on some shit

[2mchbooty]

finally some real talk LOL

yea man I tell her plenty of things, and the way she acts its like a joke for all my homeboys and people around me, cause they all know what she has goin for her, and that this whole “crunk” persona aint her true self. Readin some of these responses I think she feels the need to impress people or kind of “fit in”… and not with me, cause I am as far from crunk as you can get, at least my mentality is... see from the get go she cared a whole lot what people thought, and I got her out of that mentality, but I think she’s fallin back into it; she got new friends, chicks that don’t have nothing goin for em, some got kids, others change boyfriends more then thongs, and that’s never been her.. I don’t know what to tell her, it just got me trippin on some shit

WTF is wrong with girls with kids Rickster?! MILF's FTW!!!!!!!!

[thinkfast®]

WTF is wrong with girls with kids Rickster?! MILF's FTW!!!!!!!!

LOL... nothin's wrong with them, hell I've dated a few back in the day! they need love too I'm just sayin the ones SHE kicks it with, they got a baby daddy that aint no good, they dont have shit goin on for them, and they just hang out with my homegirl, and its like they bring her down a notch from who she really is!

[A.P. Photography]

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is give an ultimatum but it can be a double edge sword. On one hand it may wake her up and make her realize what she has been doing and she could end up losing you, on the other hand if she thinks her 'new friends' are better for her then you could lose her altogether. At this point we are all just offering suggestions as we don't know her or the history you two have together but if this is something that is bothering you then you have to ask yourself this: Can I live with her in my life if she keeps up with this 'new image'? Secondly do I care enough for her to try and save her from the path she is on?

[thinkfast®]

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is give an ultimatum but it can be a double edge sword. On one hand it may wake her up and make her realize what she has been doing and she could end up losing you, on the other hand if she thinks her 'new friends' are better for her then you could lose her altogether. At this point we are all just offering suggestions as we don't know her or the history you two have together but if this is something that is bothering you then you have to ask yourself this: Can I live with her in my life if she keeps up with this 'new image'? Secondly do I care enough for her to try and save her from the path she is on?

funny you say that, thats actually what I did (ultimatum) and now she's kickin it with her friends still, and the whole persona is just gettin worse.. almost to the point of me not wanting to hang out with her! Its crazy that some simple shit like that can make you despise a person, but at the same time we got a lot of history, so its not easy on any part... I gotta let it burn!

I'm not gay for talkin about feelings on IA, right? cause if you think so you can say it to my face