Originally Posted by
BABY J
The reason that men cheat is "because". Simple as that. LOL. How many times you see a man cheat on a 10 w/ a 7? A LOT. It's b/c they want something different... it doesn't exactly have to be "better". But there is a simple thing that men can do to stay grounded. Whenever you are about to cheat think of it this way:
"You are about to cheat w/ a woman who is wanting to be w/ a man that she knows is a cheater."
That sounds elementary, but it's deep. What does that say about HER? Women cheat for totally different reasons, but chances are once women start cheating your relationship is over... you've pretty much had your opportunities to make things right. When women cheat it is hardly ever about the dick (unless it's mine, b/c it's GANGSTA... LOL). She has usually lost her emotional attachment to you. When men cheat, more times than not it is about the ASS. THAT is why a man can love you and actually WANT to be w/ you, but still cheat... to him, it's the ass (most times) and nothing else.
