Originally Posted by
BABY J
See what happens when kids feel that they are ready for REAL relationships? 1st of all, it is not any woman's JOB to respect the relationship that you "supposedly" have. All is fair game in life and love. If I see your woman and I press up on her it is HER job to lay down the law and keep me in check. In that case, she tells me she is spoken for, and THEN she tells her man what happened. Not so he can come and kick my ass, b/c that one conversation should tell me where I stand... but so the NEXT time I press and she tells him he will have the fuel to say "Look, the 1st time SHE told you... now I'M gonna tell you...". All of this boy-toy flirting crap is cute, but as you can see it's all fun and games until some1 gets hurt. When I goes to PMs then all bets are off, every1 takes public knowledge and PMs different. If I start a thread and say I wanna fuck Brett in the ass, there will be tons of jokes about it... the people that know me and the people that know him would never take it seriously... neither would he. If I send that same mesage as a PM, all bets are off!! The simple fact is that it seems that Derek got caught up... POINT BLANK. Does that mean that he doesn't want his woman? Maybe, maybe not. But it DOES show that he is not mature enuff for a relationship... or that he wants something on the side... or that he is not 100% happy... which BASICALLY says he's not mature enuff for a relationship. You can't assume he will do the right thing... what if this never came out (just like a lot of OTHER things on this board that people think are secrets)? Then he'd be more than likely gettin' some "moo shoo" on the side. It happens, learn your lesson, count your losses and move on. And for you women, do not put up w/ BS from a man... he is just ONE man out of EVERY other fuckin' man on the planet. You will live, and so will he. Find one that appreciates what he has, and find one who appreciates what he has EVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOT AROUND. THAT is the key. You guys crack me up sometimes w/ this internet-gayness. If you are gonna be a pimp be a REAL fuckin' pimp and have an OPEN relationship... you'd be surprised how many women are game for it, simply b/c it means you are not always crawling up HER ass all the time when SHE wants to go play a little bit. Real pimps do not have to PM, their shit is in the open. And if you wanna cheat, dammit do it RIGHT and def do not use anything that's trackable like the damn internet... sheesh. Simply stated, GROW THE FUCK UP, all of you.
