What would you do?

[Hulud]

Do not move this to the relationships/sex section, please!!

Say that you have a best friend (of the opposite sex) and feelings b/w both people are stronger than just friends; however, you've tried the dating thing 2 times in the past and it didn't work... now, whenever you try dating someone else, you can't b/c your "best friend" gets jealous and vice versa...

What would you do? Explain.

dont worry what they think, i mean it didnt work theres nothing they can do now. if they are going to be that childish then you just have to stop being friends with them. because they are going to hold you back from finding that special person.

[BTLFED]

dont worry what they think, i mean it didnt work theres nothing they can do now. if they are going to be that childish then you just have to stop being friends with them. because they are going to hold you back from finding that special person.

Exactly.

[buddha@TeamFX]

Tiff hun...sit down and talk to him...and explain to him that if he wants to be with you then he needs to tell you and if he just wants to be friends he needs to understand that your going to be dating other guys..!!

[Hulud]

Tiff hun...sit down and talk to him...and explain to him that if he wants to be with you then he needs to tell you and if he just wants to be friends he needs to understand that your going to be dating other guys..!!

i had assumed she had already done that after two tries
but yea do that then what i said

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

i had assumed she had already done that after two tries
but yea do that then what i said

no no no.. we broke up the first time cause he wanted to be back with his ex (a 17 year old skank, by the way, he's 22)... we broke up the 2nd time after he cheated on me with a stripper, or a couple of strippers.. We never got back together, we just somehow became best friends again.

[Hulud]

no no no.. we broke up the first time cause he wanted to be back with his ex (a 17 year old skank, by the way, he's 22)... we broke up the 2nd time after he cheated on me with a stripper, or a couple of strippers.. We never got back together, we just somehow became best friends again.

and you would even fathom the thought of giving him another chance?

[babygurl]

and you would even fathom the thought of giving him another chance?

that is how I feel!

But it is her choice, and we as her friends, should respect it and try and support her! And Just warn him that if he screws her over again! He will get ran over!

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

and you would even fathom the thought of giving him another chance?

i know, it makes me look stupid, but love is blind... it's true. Love stinks and love hurts.. I hate it, but it's one of those things..

Everyone who sees us together knows that we are beyond perfect... we keep trying this b/c we know that no one else could put up with us... it's ridiculous... He's an asshole and I'm a bitch... He gives me hell and I take it, and I do the same... I don't know.. I'm really just f*ing confused..

[Sledlude]

no no no.. we broke up the first time cause he wanted to be back with his ex (a 17 year old skank, by the way, he's 22)... we broke up the 2nd time after he cheated on me with a stripper, or a couple of strippers.. We never got back together, we just somehow became best friends again.

PLEASE have more respect for yourself than that- you are obviously a pretty girl who deserves better. If everything was great and you were meant to be and all that jazz, you wouldn't have broken up in the first place. It seems like you guys are both young so.... maybe there's a little growing up to do on both sides before ANYTHING (even a friendship) can work. As far as the jealousy thing goes, tell him to kiss your ass, you do what you want, he can always call up his 17 year old skank or stripper pals to keep him company.

when people treat you like shit, it's mostly because of thier own issues and not so much you. keep your head up and tell him to back the fuck up til he grows up. just my

[ahmonrah]

-PLEASE have more respect for yourself than that.........
-if everything was meant to be,you wouldn't have broken up in the first place
-maybe there's a little growing up to do on both sides before ANYTHING (even a friendship) can work.
As far as the jealousy thing goes.............
-when people treat you like shit, it's mostly because of thier own issues and not so much you. keep your head up ..... just my

-if everything was meant to be,you wouldn't have broken up in the first place....

......imo, not exactly true, but i feel you. i look at it like this. sometimes your with the right person but it may not be the right time......

-maybe there's a little growing up to do on both sides

before ANYTHING (even a friendship) can work. that is needed on both sides from whati gathered from her first post.

As far as the jealousy thing goes.............

they to me both have harbored feelings for eachother that goes beond friendship and that's the reason they both get jealous of eachother.

-when people treat you like shit, it's mostly because of thier own issues and not so much you. keep your head up ..... just my

[A.P. Photography]

dont worry what they think, i mean it didnt work theres nothing they can do now. if they are going to be that childish then you just have to stop being friends with them. because they are going to hold you back from finding that special person.

Sometime drastic measures such as this are called for.

[JustinSane110™]

dont worry what they think, i mean it didnt work theres nothing they can do now. if they are going to be that childish then you just have to stop being friends with them. because they are going to hold you back from finding that special person.

Agreed completely.

no no no.. we broke up the first time cause he wanted to be back with his ex (a 17 year old skank, by the way, he's 22)... we broke up the 2nd time after he cheated on me with a stripper, or a couple of strippers.. We never got back together, we just somehow became best friends again.

Ummm.... fuck him (not literally though, lol). I mean if he's had 2 chances and fucked them both up (in epic ways) then fuck that. I mean I could understand if you had to break up cuz one of you moved away for school and couldn't handle the distance, or something like that but homey fucked up amazingly bad both times. Just move on and date other people and if he starts getting jealous and shit, then fuck him (again, not literally haha).