Quote Originally Posted by {X}Echo419
2nd you don't have to pay child support, even if the court orders it. you can jus say F%$* it! the judges here are weak and don't follow up shit and/or you can drag shit out soo far(legally) that she'll get fed up with fighting you and give up.
This is what ya do if you lose costody(spelling): pay child support the 1st year or till the court date whatever.
This is very bad advice. Not to mention, untrue. The payments will back up. If you knew first hand ,you would know that your payments will accrue and when you reach a certain dollar amount, you'll end up in jail. I know about this first hand. If you are court ordered to pay and you don't, not only are you going to be held accountable for that, but you will also be in contempt of court.

Quote Originally Posted by {X}Echo419
Save your reciepts for the clothes etc. Then when you Do go to court you can show(and I'm certian this will be the case) that she didn't spend 1 dime on things for the child. She just used your check to pay her car note or whatever.
Only thing wrong with that, though, is that as long as the child is taken care of and lacks nothing, it doesn't matter where your exact dime goes. Later, QD.