I guess you are right, I know that she'll understand the poem and it will help her but in most cases ur 100% right. Try lookin at it more like...if this is where I must end up...then 4give me for what i've done and let me be with you in the end...which in a way is motiviation..knowing that you'll be "saved"...but I agree and disagree with ya drewbert...thanks for the .02 tho