I think its a bunch of bullshit....how can you tell your friends that your boyfriend beats your ass and they go to help her and then she takes it all back... what a crock of shit,.... so let her keep getting her ass beat by this guy.. she will eventually learn or atleast I hope she does... do you know how many girls/women are beaten everyday by their boyfriends/husbands but think its ok because they say that it wont happen again... what a bunch of shit