Take Jimmy's advice and apologize. You essentially called his wife a liar (even though it was true). I saw the reason they do not like you posted elsewhere and it is always going to be an obstacle. But you are fueling the fire by arguing with them (in their minds you are justifying their dislike of you). Keep the peace for the sake of your girl. Get her a cellphone so you can contact her and dont call the house and dont go by. Out of sight out of mind