First off, you did the exact right thing by not driving home drunk. So, not your fault.

Second, your friend knew he was riding suspended and shouldn't have been out driving. He could've helped you get a cab. You make the comment about how "but we all have lives and need to get around somehow." Well, I don't think going to bar to hang out is a necessary thing to do when you have a suspended license on your plate. Going straight to work and back would be my only reason for doing this. So, not your fault.

Third. You're angry at the cops? Why? Because they did there job? To me, keeping someone off the road that shouldn't be on the road is pretty important. If you feel guilty because he got caught doing something stupid, how would you feel if he had (accidently) killed someone and got sued by that family and lost everything he had. Then he'd be in jail for a lot longer than what he may spend now. Plus with a vehicular homicide along with it. So, that's his fault.

Quote Originally Posted by hitomi
i just feel like my friend has been cheated of so many things he's worked for because of this and that its all my fault.

really, he was a sober guy driving his drunk friend home for safety's sake, and now he has to put up with all this bullshit.
Your friend cheated himself. He was completely in the wrong. Not you. maybe he should have thought about the things he worked for before doing this. While it is very respectful of him to be your DD, the "bullshit" he has to put up with is his own fault.

You know the history between me and your club and this post has nothing to do with that. I would/have say this to anyone posting this. Later, QD.