Random.

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Adoption has allowed parents to push aside abortion, and turned to adoption: sort of like a way to feel less guilty about giving their child away. It's nothing special. Giving birth is so easy a legless chimp with a tendency to shove bananas up its ass can do it. No parent, mother or father truly loves their fetus. If they say they do they're lieing. You don't start feeling strong emotions for your child until you start really interacting with it.

I cannot stand pro-life people. We're already living in an over-populated world and could stop with reproduction for a decade or so.

Anyway, back to Bri.

You're right, you don't know me. My son and my fiancé are all I need as well as my my family. I already have the day planned out so I don't understand why people are still commenting on where I should or shouldn't go. As for my mom, no one knew her like I did. I didn't just lose her but I lost my dad and NOONE knows how it's like to be almost 23 years old without a mother and father. I've been through too many heartbreaks, lies, cheaters and right now til I decide I don't want to take advice from anyone on here about how to live my life and what I should and shouldn't do with my child. He is well taken care of by myself and his "dad." I pay for everything and take care of him 100%. Thanks though.

I can promise you that you do not want me to put my input on what you said.

I don't want...

This down here? Heh, you're kidding right?

Abortion? Are you kidding me? When I found out I was pregnant I was 11 weeks. A baby that far along already has fingers. As for affording everything, the economy isn't that bad, I have a full time job. Couponing works wonders. A single mom? Nope definitely not single. Been with my fiancé for almost 7 months and there's defiantly not a problem with my relationship with him. And I do know who the father is BUT when you go to The DSS they ask for you to give the guys information that you know most about so since I knew almost everything about catnip considering I dated him for 3 years I went with that approach first. His real father is in the Army about to leave for Korea in march and is in the process of signing over his rights so my fiancé could legally adopt him.

I've been through allllllllot of shit, and made a lot of mistakes but it's really funny how people can voice their opinions or ask a question on this forum and not getting shit on but once I do it's world war 3.

As far as my life is concerned leave your god damn opinions to yourself as well as your negativity and maybe just maybe you'll learn respect.

You had a son?! Awesome! At least he will turn out to be a women beater who will use his $300 dollar bi-weekly check on ice.

That's better than another bimbo who strongly believes she's hot shit and a master on life. You don't have fuckin' clue as to what's about to head your way. You think 9 months of pregnancy was tough? It's gonna hit you harder than a Marcus knockout. If you read everyone of these posts carefully you will uncover a subliminal message somewhere. Let me save you the trouble: piss off. Go be a mom. You're a squirt who has a lot growing up to do. You keep up that facade that you don't care, you don't care if people shit on you, you're too cool, but deep down you do and it hurts your little heart. Statistically the odds are against you. Your up-bringing was probably crap and your child's life is already heading down the same road. No advancement in your genetic pool - which is why I said abortion would've been an incredible decision.

Now you may think I'm giving you shit, but I can back my shit up. I can back up my parenting advice. My first daughter will be 3 in March and at 2 she was potty trained, she can speak in complete sentences, she knows all her shapes including octagons, rhombus, ovals, diamonds, etc.! Speaks Spanish, knows 1-30 in English and 1-20 in Spanish... the list goes on. I never brag about her but I will today because you'll probably treat your child like shit. Talk to him like a baby, "ooh my baby-boo-boo..." NO. Talk to it like an adult. Always make sure you have him ask questions, show him the stars the moon. Tell him how beautiful trees are, how calming and wonderful water is. Don't just sit it infront of the tv and expect it to learn on its own. Basically what I'm saying is to get off IA, leave, because no one gives a fuck about you and disappear. Vanish like a mirage and deal with life head on.

Seriously.


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