FTR, I had CFA for breakfast, and it was good.

There is so much ideology going on here. Some people are born gay, and some chose. Some people like this or that, and that's another set of choices. However, therein lies the point, we live in a free society, one where we get to choose. Even more so, a Democratic society where we get to vote. Yet, all those choices are lost when we define what's right for one because of our own ideology. If you wanna be whatever you want to be sexually, socially, intellectually, politically, or etc. it's your choice, and if we live in a free society no one should be able to tell you otherwise.