Quote Originally Posted by Sinfix_15 View Post
You can be devoted to someone and make a mistake. Let's say you've been married 10-15 years and you're 100% in love with your wife and want to be with her forever, but in a moment of weakness you cheat with someone else. You immediately realize it was a mistake and know that you will never do it again. It had nothing to do with your emotional attachment to your wife, it was strictly physical.

I think that it is your's and only your decision on if, when or how you decide to tell your wife. It's not mine and it certainly isnt your coworkers.
Just a mistake doesn't involve sex with someone else.